Category: Mindset

  • Pain rescue: sometimes you have to save yourself

    Pain rescue: sometimes you have to save yourself

    Today is May the first – May Day. It’s traditionally a European day of ribbon twirling and dancing. But, me being me, it also reminds me of the distress call “Mayday – Mayday!!” I looked up the origins of the phrase, and it apparently comes from the 1920s and is…

  • Brain-strain (not pain): Part ONE (questions)

    Brain-strain (not pain): Part ONE (questions)

    I’ve been talking a lot about how to improve brain health from the point of view of minimizing pain. But I also realized that brain health in general is important; “use it or lose it”, as they say. So, I thought that for something completely different, I’d find three ‘matchstick…

  • Creating a (mental) happy place

    Creating a (mental) happy place

    When I was a child, I used to suffer from insomnia.  I would lie in bed and overanalyze what had happened that day… agonize over whether I could have handled things differently… imagine alternative tomorrows… catastrophize a bit.  I’m not a huge fan of the concept of a ‘migraine personality’…

  • The Boston Marathon and Mount Everest

    The Boston Marathon and Mount Everest

    What do the Boston Marathon and Mount Everest have in common?  They seem to be the two most common stories I hear referred to as an (im)possible dream.  A dream so big, the dreamer knows it could take them years to achieve, but one which they believe the sacrifice will…

  • Being cruisy in carparks

    Being cruisy in carparks

    Yesterday’s post “can drafts can cause migraines?” got mixed responses here, and on Instagram and LinkedIn (where I sometimes post links). Some people were ‘heck yeah’, some were ‘I guess so’ and some were ‘meh…’ – which pretty much sums up all my feelings over the last few weeks I’ve…

  • Can drafts cause migraines?

    Can drafts cause migraines?

    A month ago, while I was walking my two dogs, a lady who was visiting a neighbor up the road stopped me.  She wanted to chat to my dogs.  After her dog-whispering was complete, she started up a conversation with me.  She mentioned she wasn’t feeling that well and began…

  • Living in the grey (or orange) zone of life

    Living in the grey (or orange) zone of life

    Our language tends to favor a binary (on/off or 1/0) version of events.  Life is good/bad, the sky is clear/overcast, people are heroes/villains, decisions are right/wrong, play a game and you’re a winner/loser, and in our final hour we may well turn out to be saved/damned.  If you used traditional…

  • Press the (fishy) doorbell – then clap – please!

    Press the (fishy) doorbell – then clap – please!

    The internet is a weird and wonderful place, no doubt about it. The other day when I was on Tumblr I read a fantastic post about a fish-doorbell. Yep, you read that correctly. In the Netherlands they have lots of canals, and on those canals they also have ‘locks’ which…

  • We are ALL influencers

    We are ALL influencers

    After spending a few weeks on Instagram I have become hyperaware of ‘influencers’.  In Australia, and in my line of work, I don’t really hear much about them, except the occasional story when one gets arrested returning from an overseas travel trip that ‘sponsors’ paid for (sponsors who turned out…