Seeking the Nemesis Bird… mindfully

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I recently watched the fictional murder mystery “The Residence” which is set in the White House during a visit from the Australian prime minister (played by Julian McMahon (whose father was the actual Prime Minister of Australia in the year I was born, oh, and he was once married to Danni Minogue for a little extra meta-narrative given Kylie Minogue also makes an appearance!))

I got distracted – sorry – anyway – in the show, Cordelia Cupp (played by actress Uzo Aduba) is the eccentric detective brought in to solve the case. When she first appears on the scene, it’s with binoculars in hand, but NOT to start her job looking for clues – instead – she’s looking for birds. President Teddy Roosevelt, she tells the Chief of Police, was a prominent ‘birder’ before he took up residence in the White House, and after he arrived, he kept a journal of every bird he saw on the grounds. Ms Cupp hopes to cross off as many birds on that list as possible during her contract to solve the murder.

There are several moments throughout the series where other characters have to wait for Ms Cupp to return to the moment, so intent is she on her birdwatching. Several other times she tries to explain human motives, or how she notices clues or deduces solutions, by referring to bird behavior. The birds mentioned in the show (listed here) are not all from the USA, but their names create a subtle backbeat, a homage to the wonders of Mother Nature: Screech Owl, Purple Grackle, Dimorphic Jewel-Babbler, Yellow-Throated Longclaw, and the ‘Nemesis Bird’.

The Nemesis Bird is different for each birder; it’s the one they constantly seek… and the one that constantly evades their seeking. I found a post from 2016 about the term – Birdist Rule #5: Get Yourself a Nemesis Bird – “Because every hero needs a villain”.

The article’s author Nicholas, writes about his Nemesis Bird (the Red Crossbill) this way: “After I came up empty on multiple-long drives to their ‘guaranteed’ habitat, I couldn’t help but hold a grudge. It became personal. Again, my eventual encounter, this time in Aspen, Colorado, wasn’t just a sighting: It was a vanquishing.”

If you enjoy the hunt, then ‘the one that got away’ is strangely, part of the pleasure.

I just remembered that in the movie “The Big Year” (2011) the three main characters are all competing to set the record for the most birds seen in North America in a calendar year. The current record holder (played by Owen Wilson) laments (for a whole 10 seconds) his Nemesis Bird – the Snowy Owl:

[Source: The Big Year: Snowy Owl]

My father was a birder for years, until he had crossed off either all, or almost all, of the birds in his Australian field guide. I vaguely remember he took my mother on a holiday-cruise which was secretly motivated by the need to get far enough offshore to see some of the larger sea birds on his list!

For my father, birding was a post-employment hobby that encouraged him to travel far and wide, and lent structure and purpose to those outings. I didn’t know about Nemesis Birds until now, so can’t confirm if he had one, but I vaguely remember there was a rainforest bird that evaded him for a long time, and another story about a ground-nesting migratory bird that was very rare (in part because birders accidently trod on the nests whilst seeking out the shy flappers).

Back then, I think birders still called themselves ‘twitchers’. According to Birdful.org, “The term ‘twitcher’ comes from the nervous excitement these enthusiasts felt when chasing a rare bird sighting. Twitchers would ‘twitch’ with anticipation at the prospect of adding another species to their life list (their tally of unique birds seen).”

I quite like the idea of getting twitchy with anticipation about your life list!

One of my digital friends, Steve, a psychotherapist in Scotland, has a blog called ChangeTherapy.org.uk. Trained in mindfulness, Steve takes patients on walks through nature to help them with issues ranging from grief, anxiety and depression (you can read more here: Mindfulness Walks). What prompted me to remember his site was a range of posts a guest blogger named Clive wrote about birds.

Clive’s post “Mindful Birdwatching” is brief but poignant. It mentions his earliest memories of looking for birds in a nearby allotment with his Grandad:

…look over there – isn’t that a wren among the flower pots; shush listen – that’s a robin singing from deep in the holly bush too; and here – here’s a blue feather from the wing of a Jay…

The dialogue feels so real I can imagine Clive and his Grandad huddled together, whispering, pointing. But it’s the next passage that really resonated with me:

“That excitement and joy lives with me still as I write these words.  Perhaps we are naturally mindful as children; we need to relearn the ‘how’ as adults.”

Birding is a form of mindfulness for adults. It’s often hard to make the time to walk in the woods. Without a reason to be there, it might feel like an indulgence to just ‘go walking’. But, if we attach a purpose to our traipsing, then the meanderings feel more guilt-free: “look! I’m busy doing something!” (As I’ve mentioned before, instead of living as human-beings, so many of us are hardwired to act as human-doers.)

Clive rightly points out that you can ‘go birding’ almost anytime, anywhere. Sitting in your backyard, waiting in a carpark, staring out the window: “Take a minute […] notice your breathing begin to slow; how your thoughts are less racing.  […] and enjoy the moment.”

In Nicholas’s article about the Nemesis Bird he notes that after finding one nemesis, he created a new one, and another. Maybe you can too – without the need for a ‘villain’ as such. Pick a bird you know lives near your home; a pigeon… a sparrow… a magpie, lorikeet, galah or kookaburra. Just one. Without paper or pen, keep an eye out for it. Glance into the garden… the sky… the treetops… the rooves of neighboring houses… see it? Hear it?

No? Keep looking… until… there it is! Hooray! Congratulate yourself… take a moment to bask in your observational skills… then pick another bird to be on the lookout for…

…for as long as it takes.

Mindfulness aims to focus your attention (repeatedly) on the here and now.

What better way to be mindful than to breathe deeply and notice your surroundings (and intentionally vanquish one nemesis after the other)?

Take care taking care out there (as you get twitchy!), Linda xx

PS – I chose a dove from the free Pexels library as the cover image, because we could all do with some peace these days. xx

PPS – shoutout to a new blog friend Octavia and her blog: Rare Bird Collections


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35 responses to “Seeking the Nemesis Bird… mindfully”

  1. KikiFikar Avatar

    Hello from a new fan! I’ve always been fascinated by birds as a species. The wingspan and flight were the basic components that drew me in as a child. I always wanted to fly and the thought of being able to self propel yourself really kept my mind going. I’m intrigued by birding! As an aside- I will say that The Residence was pure gold in my opinion. Very sad there will not be a second season.

    So happy to have found your work!!! ❤️

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      So happy to have you here! I wanted to fly as a kid, but strangely I was drawn to planes and helicopters rather than birds! I even considered becoming a pilot for a few years until I got interested in architecture. And yes, it is a shame there will be no season two of the series, it was so quirky and clever! 💜

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  2. Armann and Kaymann Avatar

    We love to watch the birds and also drive to certain locations to watch for our nemesis bird, the bald eagle.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh wow – that’s a real signature bird – good luck finding one! And enjoy the quest!! Linda xx

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  3. Edward Ortiz Avatar

    Is The Residence any good? I’m always looking for shows to watch on the weekends. I like watching the birds when I’m walking on trails, but not purposely like a hobby. But, observing nature and the peace we experience there is definitely a great mindfulness activity.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Hi Edward! The show was ‘quirky’ so defies description – it was odd and entertaining and if you read the detective genre (which I have since I was a kid) then there are several ‘easter-egg’ / ‘meta-narrative’ moments that play with your expectations. For what it’s worth I didn’t guess the answer to ‘who done it’. And yes, casual birding is my way too – I like watching the birds’ antics, but couldn’t tell you many of their names! Have a wonderful weekend! Linda 🙂

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      1. Edward Ortiz Avatar

        Okay, thank you. I’ll probably watch an episode or two to see how it’s going. Same to you, Linda.

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        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          Curious to see how it goes for you – just don’t take it too seriously!!

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          1. Edward Ortiz Avatar

            👍🏼

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    Anonymous

    Thanks for the mention Linda. I’ve watched birds for as long as I can remember (which is a very very long time). Many birds have eluded me but the one I have still yet to see is a Firecrest. They bred in the part of the UK where I grew up but not one did I come across. This time of year many arrive in the UK from Europe, so maybe this year I’ll get lucky 🤞. Here’s hoping anyway. Here’s a link so that you can look them up …

    https://www.rspb.org.uk/birds-and-wildlife/firecrest

    Love your blog so keep writing 😊🕊️❤️

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh! a Firecrest sounds so lovely – had a look online, he’s a feisty little fella – very small and bush-camouflaged – but I bet once his fire-crest is up he’d stand out! Good luck on finding one this year!! (so welcome for the shout-out!) Linda 🙂

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  5. Dana at Regular Girl Devos Avatar

    Lovely! Mindfulness Walks sound great.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      I know right – With the added benefit of looking for birds !! xx

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      1. Dana at Regular Girl Devos Avatar

        I would love to see owls! 🦉

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        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          I’ve heard them over the years, but never seen one hoot-hooting in a tree… but then again; I’m usually asleep after dark!!

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          1. Dana at Regular Girl Devos Avatar

            Ha! Me too!

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            1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

              🙂

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  6. pk 🌎 Avatar

    Nice post💝 wonderful and Blessed day.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Thank you so much – it means a lot to me!!

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  7. richardbist Avatar

    I watched The Residence a few months ago and loved it (and it had nothing to do with Kylie making an appearance!). Cordelia’s bird-watching obsession was a fun quirk in the story and helped to change the narrative flow a little bit.

    I’ve always had a fascination with birds – particularly hawks – and one of my simple pleasures is sitting in the back yard listening to their songs and watching them flutter about in the trees and bushes. It’s calming, relaxing, and makes me feel more in touch with the outside world. In a way, I guess it is a form of meditation.

    Unfortunately, we’re slipping into fall here in the U.S. and the migrations are starting, so I’ll have to wait until spring for my moments of zen with them.

    Great post, Linda. Here’s hoping the birds sing to you today!

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Thank you Richard! It was cheeky kookaburras way too early this Spring morning here – but I reminded myself of the link to mindfulness, and even though I was awake before my time, I did a mini-meditation on the sound and got up feeling excited for the day ahead – yay birds!

      (Interesting how hawks make you think of peace… you paradox you!)

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  8. destiny Avatar

    reminded me of my dad … he spent much of his free time birdwatching.
    It was so so long ago…and i was so little then…i almost forgot, Linda …
    🤍🌷

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      There’s something very tender about memories of grown men watching birds, it’s quite lovely! 🥰

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      1. destiny Avatar

        so true…. thank you, Linda…🤍

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        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          My pleasure lovely 💜

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  9. The Oceanside Animals Avatar

    Charlee: “BIRD!!!”
    Chaplin: “They are all our nemeses. EVERY SINGLE ONE.”

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      🫠ah yes – my dogs have a tendency to chase all feathered friends away… sigh

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  10. thingsihavethoughtof Avatar

    Nice! My nemesis birds are those making noises near my window early in the morning or when I’m trying to meditate. Namely, Noisy Miners. Their chicks constantly make a chirp over and over and over and over… arrrggh. Apparently there’s as plague of them in Melbourne. I used to have a Little Wattlebird that would do it’s own version of a cock-a-doodle-doo about 6am every morning, which was more like a bu-kak-a, but the Noisy Miners seemed to have chased it away which they tend to do. I sort of miss it now though, those dang pesky Noisy Miners (wascilly wabbits)!

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Someone named them noisy for a reason 😅 we get gangs of kookaburras that take up residence for a few days who enjoy laughing at their own noise just before sunrise … I tend to just accept it’s time to get up rather than fight it … but it’s downright rude on a weekend!

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      1. thingsihavethoughtof Avatar

        I wouldn’t mind hearing a choir of Kookuburras in the morning, sounds nice, … probably until it wakes me the weekend, yes :-/ We rarely get them here. I love the sound of the Currawong when it’s about to rain, just reminds me of the misty mountains…

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        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          That is very cool … I have to admit I’m a bit vague on what birds are making which sounds … 50+ years old and still referring to the cacophony as “birds” without overthinking it too much … better take up birding to get my sounds straight! 🙂

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  11. Jennifer Patino Avatar

    I love birding! It is a hobby I picked up after moving to an area near nature trails and I’m learning so much!

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      I’m new to it … as a city dweller I assumed pigeons were all there were, but now as I spend more time out walking the trails, like you, I’m starting to see and understand more – birds are pretty amazing! I’m not sure I could track down a whole books worth … I don’t know if I have the patience!

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      1. Jennifer Patino Avatar

        It’s always fun to see which species come through here during migration times.

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        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          👏🤩👏

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