“Mindfulness and it’s discontents”

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The more I learn about mindfulness, the more I discover there is also push-back.  If mindfulness is a ‘movement’, then there are those who are advocates and those who are not.  The internet is full of the first camp, and you don’t have to look too hard to find someone who’s selling you something from that camp.  But it’s this relationship to capitalism (and the growing distance from authentic spirituality) that makes the second camp increasingly nervous.

The book “Mindfulness and its discontents: education, self and social transformation” by David Forbes (2019), is designed to highlight the concerns growing up around the mindfulness movement. 

In his acknowledgement page he notes that there are BOTH “perils and promises of mindfulness” (p.vii) – but it is its social implications that he is most interested in. Right from the first pages, Forbes notes that he wishes he had mindfulness in his life as a child, and that he recognizes it as a “radical tool for liberation” from unhelpful thoughts, but he also worries that it has become “unmoored” from its traditional roots, “not just secularized but profaned” (p.9).  He fears that those who follow mindfulness, may be well-intended but if they don’t query its moral and ethical purpose, and potential social impact, then there is a risk of blind-following and self-aggrandizement.  The most zealous believers, he frets, are convinced their meditational love can heal the world, and yet the majority of those meditators are privileged white middle-class people who have the time and money to engage in personal enlightenment.  Pushed to its limits, mindfulness becomes a form of “elitism” (10).

In other words, “self-awareness” if removed too far from its mindful roots becomes “self-centered”, which, if pushed too far becomes “selfish”.

In Australia we have a phrase – “McMansions” – for the sorts of houses that are pumped out into the suburbs; cookie cutter designs which are treated as cutting edge, but are all needlessly large, unrelated to their context or the environment… all same-same and somehow less-less. 

Forbes adopts a similar phrase – “McMindfulness” – designed to imply a self-serving, privatized, and commercialized version of mindfulness practice.  The paradox he hints at, is that through their escapism, mindfulness practitioners reinforce a capitalist, individualistic, inequitable society – much the same as the one which created the stress in their lives to start with.

Going back to check his history, I note that Forbes is a mindfulness teacher and counsellor.  He does not say that all secular mindfulness should be dropped.  Nor is he advocating a return to a Buddhist version of mindfulness only.  His hope appears to be that people will adopt a more mindful form of mindfulness, socially aware and more universally applicable.  As I read it; letting go should make room for helping others.

Forbes seems to trace most of the ‘problem’ back to the doctor-teacher Jon Kabat-Zinn.  It was Kabat-Zinn who was largely credited for the creation of the Mindfulness Stress Based Reduction (MSBR) technique (what ChatGPT decided I rely on to heal).  And in his creation of MSBR, Kabat-Zinn replaced 2,5000 years of Eastern-religious meditational ways with a Western-scientific approach.  He “threw most of it out” (15).  As such, he seems to have colonized meditation – whitewashed it – (mis)appropriated it. By encouraging us to pay attention to the now, he also potentially inadvertently created a form of “calmness on demand”.  Tradition, ethics, wisdom were left behind, and mindfulness stopped being “theirs” and became instead something that was “universal”… which potentially means “ours”.

In chapter 3 Forbes uses another neologism: “Minefulness” – as in mine, mine, mine.  Here he refers to the commercialization of being de-stressed, the vast number of apps and courses and companies that have grown up around making you more mindful… at a cost.  Peace and happiness start to become hedonistic, influenced by influencers, expensive…

There was one interesting aside that linked mindfulness and cell-phone-modernity with a zombie culture.  Mindfulness ironically risks mindlessness.  By trying to be mindful at the gym, doctor’s office and on the bus, you plant yourself always in this moment, in a particular way, to the point of eliminating spontaneity and pleasure (139).  By paying attention to the here and now, always, ignores the wrongs of the past and avoids the risks of the future.  We become strangely absolved of guilt, freed of consequential actions.  We are alive and yet disconnected… not REALLY alive.  Mindfulness [like zombie-everything] becomes just another fad – it may peak and fade and live out a half-life with a disco ball somewhere (140).

Overall, the chapters work through specific concerns that he has with mindfulness programs, issues with how mindfulness is taught in schools, and the limitations of mindfulness.  He notes, for example, that becoming more empathetic and compassionate through meditation, does not necessarily mean that you will make wise and informed decisions concerning yourself or others (154). 

Most of what he was saying resonated, provided a lot of food for thought, and potentially advocated my version of “mindful-lite“. If I had one concern, however, it is that he mentions the word “neoliberalism” – relentlessly…

Take care taking care, mindfully not minefully, Linda xox


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39 responses to ““Mindfulness and it’s discontents””

  1. Nancy Ruegg Avatar

    You make a very good point, LInda, to be wary of the mindfulness craze. The practice may prod us to notice the delights of the moment, and that’s good. But mindfulness plus gratitude and praise to GOD prompt us to treasure him, and that’s transformational. God’s presence becomes palpable (James 4:8), joy sings in our hearts (Psalm 92:4), and contentment settles in our spirits (Isaiah 26:3)–for starters. It is a wonderful thing to live mindful of HIM and his perfections.

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  3. Astrid's Words Avatar

    Mindfulness, consciousness and experience are issues that require personal definition. I feel it is essentially about knowing ourselves and our belonging in the universe. We can learn from what gets advertised to us but it’s important to not just follow.

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      Beautifully put as always – the ‘guides’ are there to show us A way, but it is up to us to find THE way that suits us best… and then keep learning as we go… anything too fixed or focused on a particular approach is likely to be missing the point.🤩

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  4. Silk Cords Avatar

    Some of the issues you brought up are exactly why I’ve been largely anti-mindfulness since the idea first started spreading. Reality is, Mindfulness is just a watered down level of Zen meditation that was first pushed by people looking to market it and themselves to a public that was intimidated by meditation.

    Truth; as an intro level teaching, its good. There’s too much left out however. That likely leads to those pitfalls you wrote about. In fact, there’s a great show on Netflix now called “Murder Mindfully”. It’s a dark comedy about a stressed out lawyer who is pushed into Mindfulness by his wife, and then decides the answer to his work related stress is killing.

    More importantly, there are alot of tools left out of Mindfulness. Zen teaches multiple techniques to control one’s thoughts and expand awareness. Trouble is, it takes work, practice and patience, all of which are dirty words in today’s society. Said awareness is part of how one avoids becoming a sociopath like Bjorn in “Murder Mindfully” though; you become aware of others as well as yourself. It’s honestly like the difference between a bicycle and a sports car.

    “The Three Pillars of Zen” by Roshi Phillip Kapleau is a great book on the subject. My 25th Anniversary Edition (printed in 1989) has tons of scraps of paper marking points for me to come back to, lol.

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    1. Silk Cords Avatar

      I should add here that I’m not dumping on your efforts or use of mindfulness. It’s a useful tool. My gripe has always been with the “gurus” out there that make money promoting the idea that it’s as good as going the whole 9 yards with true Zen meditation.

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        And I’m increasingly on that page too (and so was the book writer) – if the message contains too much “me-me-me” and not enough “we-or-why” then the focus is all wrong…

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      Oh, I’ll have to look it up (I think I might have read it 20 years ago when I was first interested in Zen meditation) – I remain interested in mindfulness – slowing down, being grateful and attentive, have all helped me heal, but as you said, I also recognize it as the tip of an iceberg – I don’t regret calling my blog mindful migraine, but I am increasingly aware of how it might reek of misappropriation…. but then, that’s the awareness and self-growth that was part of my journey all along!!

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      1. Silk Cords Avatar

        Mindfulness still has it’s place. It’s a good beginner’s tool so long as one realizes it’s limitations.

        As for the book, I suspect you’ll get a good deal more out of it now that you have so much experience with mindfulness.

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          Learning is very chicken-and-egg / theory-and-practice… you need a bit of theory to take on the practice, but you need practice to understand the theory better… and so on and so on…

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  5. silverapplequeen Avatar

    We say “McMansion” here in the States, too. I thought the phrase originated here, because of McDonald’s fast food restaurants. I make fun of my older brother & youngest sister for both living in McMansions outside of Nashville. I mean, both of them live in really nice houses but they’re right on top of the house on either side of them & they are much too big for that.

    Yeah, mindfulness. I always called it paying attention.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      You’ve always been an attention person, it comes through in your writing… and as for the houses… I think they’re probably as widespread as the McDonalds restaurants… here, they are built one yard off the side boundaries so the roof eaves touch, and you could lean out a window and shake hands with the neighbor… it’s a bit claustrophobic for my liking, but they ARE beautiful houses when you’re inside.

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  6. joannerambling Avatar

    This post had me stop and think, I think I am mindful more or less, as you may know I live in the here and now, meaning I do not dwell on the past and accept I have limited control over the future. I take each day as it comes, as I have hard times and not so hard times and even easy times although they are few and far between. This morning is a hard time as I can not stop my body from moving to and fro and it is exhausting. I have now forgotten what else I was going to say, bugga

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      🫠I think the overwhelm can be part of the problem – even when we live in the moment, it’s a “busy” moment… I wouldn’t worry – you ARE mindful, I think from what I can read; you’re attentive and considerate… you’re definitely not mine-ful… you’re too empathetic for that. I’m pretty confident I’m not either… but I can definitely see other influencers online who’s every word seems to be followed by a “ca-ching! $$$”

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      1. joannerambling Avatar

        There are a lot of money hungry so called influences around and I have no time for them. Thank you for those kind words

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    I’m half way through a mindfulness meditation course to help manage my daily chronic migraine, (no medications have helped at all) , no improvement yet in my pain levels or response to them eg my ‘’secondary suffering’’, can’t help but think I’m either doing it wrong or mindfulness meditation is not for me but I’’ll keep going….and try to be more patient.

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      Don’t give up – meditations helped me adjust my mindset, rather than become my saving grace. Omming and ahhing alone wasn’t the gateway – it was stopping, sitting still, making time for myself, realizing self-care was not selfish, breathing into my tummy rather than the top of my lungs, realizing how much stress I held in my face-muscles and neck…. the “boring” meditations used to make me frustrated that my brain was doubly-broken because it couldn’t slow down… but over time it did… I’m still a reluctant meditator, but I can feel my body and soul being a little lighter once I got the hang of it… Tai Chi was probably my favorite thing to help me slow down, feel grounded, and move my mind back into my body. Send me an email if you want to chat offline – it’s a hard diagnosis to live with, no doubt, but you’re so much stringer than you can imagine, and I’m here if you need a chat, Linda xox

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  8. festo_sanjo Avatar

    It’s such a thought-provoking post, Linda. I think it boils down to being aware necessarily more than “mindful” because just fun fact, the mind itself isn’t mindful, lol. Its basic functions are random and out of control. So making it “mindful” is doing it a disservice. You can’t be “mindful” 24/7, but you can be aware spontaneously when you’re not mindful, which allows you to gain your power back. I think we should work on being aware, in the present moment, as possible, as we can. It was such a profound read, and thanks for sharing.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      OOOOhhhh…. that’s a really good point – I’m with you – “awareness” is better, becaues it makes room for compassion and gratitude and acts of service… whereas I can see how mindfulness and present-ism makes you more mine-ful… it really is a challenging area – but I quite like pushing myself to think about things that I previously took for granted!! (thank you as always for being here – you mean a lot to me xx)

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      1. festo_sanjo Avatar

        It’s challenging because we think being “mindful” will save us, but in that same process, we might be overwhelmed because we’re counterintuitive to the functioning of our own very minds. We can’t judge when the mind wonders! It’s how it is made. We might just train it to become aware of its “wondering” but not trying to stop it by being “mindful.”

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        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          🤩so true – have a wonderful weekend my friend!

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          1. festo_sanjo Avatar

            You too enjoy your weekend, my friend.

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  9. Skyseeker/nebeskitragac Avatar

    Great post Linda! Why are you concerned with his mentioning of “neoliberalism”?

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      Good question – I think because he did it in a very judgmental way – and it felt hypocritical – he was denouncing capitalism in mindfulness, but didn’t see that introducing politics was equally destabilizing… I feel like a healing journey should be independent of our politics – everyone deserves to heal… maybe I was reading it wrong, but that was the vibe I was getting from the way he used the term… anyway – does that make sense?

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      1. Skyseeker/nebeskitragac Avatar

        I think I can’t give you a good answer unless I read the book as well. I think there’s a lot to be criticized about neoliberal capitalism, but I’m not sure was it necessary to do that in the book. I understand you when you say that introducing politics is harmful.

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          Maybe not always ‘harmful’… just not always ‘helpful’… I’m definitely feeling it more now than ever before… “treading on eggshells” is the phrase that comes to mind…

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  10. Stephanie Avatar
    Stephanie

    Excellent post, thank you. I’ve long been aware of this criticism, but you’ve eloquently explained the many angles in your summary. Impressive!

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      Yeah, it’s interesting – I’m all for mindfulness, but I can see how too much money and self-awareness could be an issue… I think of mindfulness as being attentive, and that should include looking inward and outward, so I’m not too stressed about my journey ahead! xx

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        Stephanie

        When anything is commodified it starts to take on a particular vibe and appearance, conform to a sellable package and lose it’s messy human qualities.

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          So true – I think I’ve managed to sit outside the commodification, because I am so adverse to spending money!! When you sit outside the buy-o-sphere, it’s a much nicer, kinder… strangely “richer” place to be! xox

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            Stephanie

            That sounds lovely! “Sitting outside the commodification” is descriptive and apt.

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  11. majellalaws Avatar

    Well done Linda on this post. I don’t agree with everything this author is saying but agree with some of his concerns. I’ve practised meditation for 40 years, but I rarely promote the idea of mindfulness. Why? For me I see so many self declared experts (aka wannabe influencers) setting up commercially focused mindfulness based enterprises when they have no qualifications in this area. There is danger in that. I admire the work of Dr Richard Davidson at the Center for Healthy Minds who has done sound research work in bringing meditation to the western world with the support of the Dalai Lama and other noted authorities on the subject.

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      I’m with you – there’s a balance… I think mindfulness for me often involves contemplation, and as such there’s plenty of room for thinking about others. The boom in influencers though is problematic because it makes it harder to figure out what’s helpful or hurtful… here’s to us, muddling our way through! Xx

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      1. majellalaws Avatar

        Matt Young at Melbourne Meditation Centre is my go to here in Australia. Practical approach with some good easy short practices.

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          Oh, I looked them up, they look good! thank you for the lead xx

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