Insta-fatigue and resentment reels

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In the paper the other day was an article about the declining level of fulfilling engagement with social media sites such as Instagram and TikTok.  The author spoke of how Instagram began with a happy-snap, moved towards an emphasis on swoon-worthy enviable pictures, then a collection (or carrousel) of pictures, which then escalated to short videos (or reels), followed by an expectation that there should be special effects in those videos, and so on and so on.

Now there is apparently an inundation of ‘resentment reels’ – where people sulk about the effort they put into making content that is never seen.  It’s not entirely clear whether they’re complaining about the wasted effort or the lack of fame… probably both.

Apparently, Instagram is a little confused about who it is, who they’re competing against, and how best to make money.  As a result, their ‘algorithm keeps changing’ – and that means followers may or may not see your content.  Online discussion notes that this makes the experience frustrating and demoralizing for regular users.

In a similar way, there is growing resentment over how once-were hand-made platforms such as Etsy are being inundated with digital downloads, and mass-produced cheap knock-offs which are being sold side by side with the hand-crafted version but at a fraction of the price.

And don’t get me started on blog posts that are generated purely using artificial intelligence…

Everyone, it seems is yearning for the ‘good old days’ when social media used to be social and home-made meant hand-made.

What’s all this got to do with holistic healing, you might ask.  Well, I’ve been thinking about my initial resistance to self-help and self-healing.  I remember how much I wanted a quick fix, and an easy solution.  Most importantly, I recall the slow shift in my mindset that acknowledged that good things take time, that there is pride in achieving things, and self-satisfaction that comes from those baby steps and inch-stones as opposed to big victories and epic mile-stones. 

Holistic healing and mindfulness are both ‘slow-burners’. 

There’s no shortcuts to becoming less stressed and more mindful.

I can’t help but wonder if ‘mindfulness’ will be the next victim to fall prey to commercialization – if it hasn’t already.  The explosion in adult coloring-in books is probably a sign that it’s already a commodity commercialized.  So too the abundance of meditation apps.  I guess that means it won’t be long before there’s some sort of ‘mindful-regret-reels’ where we all look back and feel as if we were all collectively duped into believing we could heal ourselves through meditation and yoga alone.

It’s possible.  Especially if Big Brands take it all and wrap it up in subscription services and some sort of buy-now-pay later approach.

Even so – I’m sticking to my path, holding my approach ‘lightly’, taking nothing too seriously, becoming no one’s devotee, enjoying the free things that life has to offer, whether it’s YouTube teasers, compliments, or sunshine.

Like so many things, I think it will come down to choice – what will you choose to chase?

Take care, carefully, Linda x


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23 responses to “Insta-fatigue and resentment reels”

  1. All the ways we’re getting sick – The Mindful Migraine Avatar

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  2. Mindful Mystic (MM) Avatar

    I try to steer clear of most social media. Just keeping it simple with my WP blogs, that I’ve had for many years—sometimes with long hiatuses from blogging. “Lightly” is a great approach. I too enjoy simple and free pleasures. Take great care of yourself. You deserve it! 🥰

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      Thank you lovely…❤️

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  3. BlackQuillBlog Avatar

    Your posts always seem to leave me feeling a bit better about things. Thank you – and I completely get the feeling of missing the ‘good old days’ of social media. Thank you for writing!

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      My pleasure… I do enjoy the old days… but I love my laptop too! Imagine having to mail out all my posts!! Xx

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  4. Darryl B Avatar

    Great post, so topical. Love the last two paragraphs… the concept of holding lightly, being no one’s devotee, choosing the free… “Simplify!” as Thoreau exhorted 😎

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      Yes! Thoreau got it right in so many ways! (Sorry for the late reply – I went offline for the weekend!) xx

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  5. Victoria Avatar

    Love this, Linda: …”yearning for the ‘good old days’ when social media used to be social and home-made meant hand-made”. 🥰

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      After a weekend offline I realised instead of yearning you can just go out and do it; make things, see people, garden… now it’s back to work and online again! 🫠

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  6. joannerambling Avatar

    I live in a bubble and in this bubble I don’t take things seriously very often don’t need the stress

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      I admire your approach – you always seem to know how to wing it gracefully and with ease… I keep finding myself in the trenches stressing!! 😣

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      1. joannerambling Avatar

        Thank you for those kind words, when I was younger I may have stressed more but not much more, my Nan couldn’t see the point in stressing over stuff and I think that rubbed off onto me

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          I feel like once the kids are over 18 and my study is complete, I will have less responsibilities, owe less to others as it were, and then I’ll be able to chill out more… here’s hoping! xx

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  7. Skyseeker/nebeskitragac Avatar

    I’ve seen some attempts to comercialise mindfulness. There are comercial on youtube about “attracting money through emiting certain brainvawes” and such stuff. That’s not exactly mindfulness but it’s similar, and stems from the sources as mindfulness.

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      Yikes! I’m all for attracting health, but I guess wealth works for others… sharing is caring, and we all have to make a dime, I just hope there’s not too much exploitation in the arrangement! (Sorry for the late reply – i decided to go offline all weekend!!) xx

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      1. Skyseeker/nebeskitragac Avatar

        No worries regarding your reply. Well there will always be naive people who will buy that kind of stuff. And I understand if someone desperatly needs money, he/she will try everything.

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  8. Stephanie Avatar
    Stephanie

    I keep IG, but private and small. Works pretty well. 🙂 Mindfulness is already removed from the requirements of traditions it sprang from. Many teachers have viewed it with skepticism as a corporate ‘get happier with things’ kind of tool. Of course, maybe sometimes it is, but sometimes it isn’t. 😀 I feel that way about apps, too. I lean on the timers especially, but that’s after already having some kind of meditation background.But I do wonder about people establishing early practices… maybe the courses could be helpful.

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      I have good days and bad when it comes to mindfulness… practice helps make habits, but sometimes it’s hard to still my busy brain… and yes, I suspect what I call mindfulness really is a long way removed from its origins! Thank you for being here (and sorry for the delay in replying!) xx

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      1. Stephanie Avatar
        Stephanie

        Not at all. I love that your posts are so clear and well thought out.

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  9. SiriusSea Avatar

    Love the last sentiment 😉 and I choose to chase time, fancy freedom, fun friends (some furry), and flights of creative ideas. Such an entertaining spin on your posts, Linda ❤ … Hope you are having a no-fatigue or resentment reels insight kinda day. How could we ever look back upon mindfulness as critically as we do a beauty regimen? 😉

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      Imagine! (Sorry for the late

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      Oops!! Must have sent by accident 🤣I was going to say I went offline to spend time in the garden with my furry besties (and hubby and kids!!) 😅

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