Practicing being #authentic

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Now that I have a little more time on my hands (with the PhD finished), and after I hilariously botched up my selfies for the “kiddy craft for migraines” post, I decided to learn a little more about how to take photographs… just on my phone… nothing fancy… or too hard.

So, I borrowed a book from the library. It’s called “Hashtag Authentic” by Sara Tasker. I hadn’t heard of her before (but I don’t get out much) – she was apparently a bit of a Big Thing on Instagram for years, famous for her earthy, moody, photos she took on her phone of her home, her daughter, and her holidays.

Her Instagram is here: @MeAndOrla | Instagram

Her Substack (including podcast) is here: Entre Nous | Sara | Substack

[All her pages seem fairly quiet and post-free at the moment, so perhaps she’s retired her camera… and there is half a post hidden behind a pay wall that suggests she has been sick… regardless, her book was a good read, and the images online give you a general idea of what she’s aiming for in her approach.]

Tips from the book included her main advice – get out there and have a go – as well as some more technical advice about framing, lighting, and using ‘thirds’ (where the main focus of the picture is positioned one-third up or two-thirds from the left and so on).

What was interesting was that she advocates being you – being #authentic – but also, reminds you that for your photos to be powerful enough to be shared, they ought to tell a story, make people feel something, and be worthy of people’s time and attention.

Below is a picture of her book cover – as is – and also a second picture that is also on an Amazon sales page, but this time, it uses some of her advice; include your hand, contextual / lifestyle props, sunlight and shade falling across the surface of what you’re interested in…

As I was wondering if I could have a go, I came across a page in the book with several navy blue images (close ups of flowers, painted hands, and a cheers-to-the-ocean-cup-of-coffee (as you do)) – I stopped reading, and thought “I have a lot of navy blue things in my house” and I started with a photo of the open book on my kitchen counter (without the lifestyle props and shadow play – oops):

[Image source: Amazon x 2 and me]

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With some of the book chapter titles in mind – “magic in the mundane” / “start with what you have” / “finding inspiration in your everyday life” – I stood up and wandered around the house with my phone-camera… I didn’t overthink it too much (“you’re blue – you’ll do”), but I did try to position the camera in an interesting way, looking for symmetry OR off-centeredness, clarity OR smudginess, strange shapes OR material details…

Here’s the 18 photos that I took (including one where I put a drinking glass in front of the camera lens and took a selfie and another of me where I learnt how to use the camera’s timer (while sitting under a clock!)):

a collage of 18 images taken around the house and garden including USBS, dinner plates, my blue pants and ivy on a blue wall

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The one with my shadow puppet under the clothesline reminds me a bit of the paradigm shift I experienced while looking at a Bird of Paradise last year!

Some of the photos work better than others. The USBs, for example, are caught under too many hand shadows from the competing overhead lights, the drink bottle is just off center, and the leftover rice in the bowl is a bit ick…

But I had a great time being a photographer for half an hour, glancing around for more blue, then taking a few moments to turn my camera this-way-that to snap my picture.

Ms Tasker would probably approve of some but not all of the images. As she writes, take photos of “moments, not things” – “When we shoot moments instead of things we capture the feelings as well as the facts.” (page 24-25)

I know what she means, and it makes sense – BUT – for me, the navy blue backpack photographed in the laundry IS just an object – but it’s also much MORE – it’s my daughter’s school backpack, that’s been hung there while we figure out what to do with it (she finished high school a couple of months ago but I’m not quite ready to let go of my little girl). The sneakers are just sneakers, and yet, the flung out laces scream, “gotta go Mom”, as I visualize my other daughter taking them off and running inside to do whatever is more important than tidying up! And the USB collection is a group of more ‘things’ except they are MY things – my PhD files all collected while I try to decide how best to store the 5 years’ worth of information… the fact that they are placed under competing shadows feels accidentally insightful (given that Covid happened and I was sick with chronic migraine for 3 of those 5 years)…

The feelings are there, just not the sort that the public might understand.

I look at the photos and think “#authentic” – but others might not.

What I thought was a bit of fun in her book was the “Finding your style” chapter. You run through a series of word-ranges and decide which ones suit you best, for example:

curated / causal

detailed / minimal

vintage / modern

fun / poignant

…and so on.

From the list above, I would say that I was curated (because I went looking for blue) but my subjects were very causal, the images are minimalistic (there’s usually only one thing per picture), and I guess they fall towards the modern, poignant end…?

When I choose images to put at the start of each blog post, I go to the blog’s “Pexels” library for royalty free images produced by professionals. I start with a word search for a theme. So for today, for example, it was “phone photography.” Next, I scan through the options, and yes, I’ll be honest, I have a “vibe” that I’m looking for.

This is a blog about mindfulness and migraines (read by people with sore heads), written by a 50-year-old lady… so the sorts of style statements that run through the back of my mind include: muted, classic, friendly, warm, mature, restful, moody but not melancholy…

Looking back at my blog home page, there’s lots of muddy shades of browns and khaki, as well as some blues and purples that match the healing mandala I created for myself at the beginning of my get-well-initiative.

Sometimes, I end up with a choice that is very vibrant, and I wonder if I should swap it out. Often I do, but sometimes the image says “keep me” so I do that and accept that it might ruin the balance I have otherwise achieved on my homepage… but it also stops it from becoming too stale.

Lastly, one of the prompts Ms Tasker gives for when “your life just doesn’t feel Instagram-worthy” …. is …. “do something worth photographing.” (p47)

I wasn’t feeling 100% on the day I decided to play photographer, so I stayed home and made do with my own surroundings, but in a way, that makes my images all the more #authentic. I should of course try to go out and photograph the real world beyond my front door… and in fact I have – I just remembered – I wrote a whole post about the photos I took on the beach while walking my dogs: “Sandcastles for pain relief.”

Do what you can, when you can… if you want to be the real you, then keep it real.

Oh, and don’t forget to have #fun – because that’s the best hashtag there is!

Take care caring, Linda xx

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PS – I wrote before about how The Getty Museum uploaded royalty free images you can use (here) but I have since discovered several museums and art galleries do the same thing including MoMA UK, The Smithsonian, The Metropolitan Museum of Art… and, and… google your little heart out people – and seek out the images that make you smile ๐Ÿ™‚


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55 responses to “Practicing being #authentic”

  1. The Oceanside Animals Avatar

    Chaplin: “Our Dada says thanks for the tip on more websites for free photos โ€• he mostly uses Pixabay but he says there is an increasing amount of ‘slop’ there lately, and I don’t think he means the kind of slop you use to feed animals.”Java Bean: “Ayyy, bummer, I got kind of excited there for a second.”

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      The biggest problem with Pixabay is that weโ€™re all using it, so even though weโ€™re creating original content, it looks repetitive because it draws on the same image poolโ€ฆ so Iโ€™m with Dada, keep looking further afieldโ€ฆ and if you guys are good, he might just find a treat for you!

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  2. Chaya Sheela Avatar

    Lovely photos. I feel that each one has a story to tell.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      thank you – it is so nice of you to drop in – and yes, the photos all tell a story (to me at least!) xox

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      1. Chaya Sheela Avatar

        You are welcome! ๐ŸŒป

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  3. Edward Ortiz Avatar

    Great photos! I really like your selfie under the clock.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      It was a cold day, hence the blankie!! ๐Ÿคฃ

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      1. Edward Ortiz Avatar

        You did good, my friend.

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  4. James Viscosi Avatar

    I’m not a great photographer and don’t seem to have much motivation to get better at it, despite coming from a family of excellent photographers and being married to one. At least my typical subject matter (our cute dogs and cats) are very forgiving of my ineptitude lol

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Agreed! ๐ŸคฃCute pets remain cute regardless of the rule of thirds!

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  5. Spark of Inspiration Avatar
    Spark of Inspiration

    Fun photos. It would be hard being on instagram. They have to always being looking for the next photo or video and if they post dailyโ€ฆ IMAGINEโ€ฆ they have their โ€œno ideaโ€ days too. Lately, some people I have followed have taken long breaks. I think they are finally tired of showing up, having to be perky and interesting. To this I say, we all go through phases in life, itโ€™s called growth, right. Iโ€™ve been in a WP slump lately. I used to come daily, had to, now days go by and I realize, YIKES, I need to write a post this week and see what others are doing. Like another commenter mentioned, nice that you are always trying โ€œnew things.โ€

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Yeah, I do like to experiment! Iโ€™m not sure I can see it developing into a hobby though, and definitely not the instagram worthy onesโ€ฆ that really would be exhausting! Xx

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  6. johnlmalone Avatar

    excellent ! what she says about photos also applies to writing— if you want to be authentic —

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      “get out there and have a go” is good advice for most things!!

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  7. Wynne Leon Avatar

    Keep it real — good advice! Thanks, Linda!

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Indeed! Always a pleasure! ๐Ÿ™‚

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  8. Dana at Regular Girl Devos Avatar

    I love how you are always willing to try new stuff!

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      thanks!! we only get this one life, so I guess I’m trying to cram as much into it as I can (which is probably what made me sick!! although I am going slower these days!)

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  9. swadharma9 Avatar

    i love your pix! you learn well. ๐Ÿ˜Š now just continue on making more & more experiments. that way we all will get to enjoy even more of your talent ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜Š

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      thank you! I will! I’ll have to pick another color or theme to experiment with – stay tuned! ๐Ÿ™‚

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  11. Sheila Avatar

    Great photos!

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      thank you – I respect what you can do with a camera – I’m going to be much more aware of the effort that goes into a good shot now! Keep up your beautiful work! xox

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  12. daylerogers Avatar

    I think you’ve overlooked a talent that’s always been there. You look at the world through a creative lens (your blog and stories), and your thinking is always out-of-the-box. Your photos have more depth than many I’ve seen, and your authenticity is so prevalent that you become a bit self-deprecatory. You’re a fascinating individual, my friend. Just saying.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Ohhh – thank you – you’re always so kind to me – it makes my heart happy! ๐Ÿฉต๐Ÿ’™

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      1. daylerogers Avatar

        You’re worth it, my friend. I think one of the challenges of today is we don’t affirm one another enough. Just a thought.

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        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          I think you’re right – it’s easy to think “oh she’s a goodie” but we often forget to say it out loud – rest assured – I think that you’re a “goodie” too! ๐Ÿ™‚

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  13. richardbist Avatar

    Some lovely shots, Linda. You have a good eye for framing and positioning. Perhaps you have a backup career as a pro photographer!

    And I agree with the sentiment of just going out and doing it, whatever creative thing it may be. We may be great or we may be mediocre, but at least we tried and we had fun.

    Hope you have a wonderful day! โ˜€๏ธ

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Thank you so much for your kind words – and yes – “have a go” is the best way to get started, otherwise you can come up with a whole tack of reasons not to do something – and then – what a shame, you missed out on some creative fun. As a creative person, you get it, and indulge daily, I’m still re-finding my feet after a long time reading technically… onwards and outwards! ๐Ÿ™‚

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  14. Trish Avatar

    I have always been intimidated by photography but this post is encouraging me to spend some time learning how to do it. Thank you for sharing, and I love seeing your blue photos!

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Yay! Have a go – you don’t have to show anyone else – just set yourself a time window and have a go (I used a theme, but it could be anything that you like, from a walk through your garden, to closeups of your fab puzzles!!) Enjoy!!

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      1. Trish Avatar

        Thank you for the encouragement!

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        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          My absolute pleasure – your puzzles fill your life with color already, but a few photos of your puzzle space, close ups of puzzle pieces sorted into colored piles etc could be really lovely! (and where I am, it’s pretty cheap to print out a few photos and frame them to hang on the wall to keep you in the mood even when you don’t have a puzzle out) xx

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  15. Liz Avatar

    I’ve not read the book. But the cover looks very familiar. So, I am wondering if I saw this at my local library while having a latte.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      She takes some nice shots – it was a good coffee table book, because you get a nice visual treat even without having to read all the details…!!

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  16. Chris Avatar

    Thank you for this post. You’ve encouraged me to put some pictures on my colorless blog. I’m putting one up later tonight.
    God’s blessings…

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh! I’m surprised you call your blog colorless – I see the absolute reverse!! All your writing is framed by bright blues and yellows and greens – sunshine, grass and summer skies! It makes me happy when I visit there! ๐Ÿ’š๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿฉต

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      1. Chris Avatar

        Thank you for your kind words, Mindful. I’m glad you get that feeling when you are there. I’m curious. My daughter gets strange migraines sometimes but they aren’t as bad as yours. Do you think seasons have anything to do with the timing of your migraines? Thanks again and
        God’s blessings…

        Also, if you check my blog tomorrow you will see a picture there for a change. I’m planning on putting it up in an hour or two.

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        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          I’ll pop over soon! And YES there are a lot of people who report fluctuations in their migraines related to the weather – we’re human barometers! For some people it has to do with humidity and pressure, for me it is temperature related (the heat gets me bad), and for others it has something to do with allergies and the pollen in Spring. Sending lots of healing vibes towards your daughter!! x
          (ps – if she wants to try to get to the bottom of it, she might have to keep a diary or use my Trigger Tracker on the resources page to try to figure out what the cause might be – but it’s a bit time consuming – so if they are only occasional, she might be better to have a best-guess approach to figure out what happened in the 2 days before hand that was “unusual” and might have set it off).

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          1. Chris Avatar

            Okay, thank you for your help. I will share what you said with her in the morning. She will know what to do from there. I’ll let you know if she uses your Trigger Tracker or anything she sees on your blog.

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            1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

              If she ever gets stuck, tell her I’m always here for a chat – she can just pop over to the contact page any time and send me an email – happy to help x

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              1. Chris Avatar

                I sure will, Linda, and thank you so much! ๐Ÿ™‚

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                1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

                  My pleasure my friend ๐Ÿ™‚

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  17. joannerambling Avatar

    A good and interesting post

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      thank you lovely! xx

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  18. Legend Powers Avatar

    One thing I have always appreciated about reading your posts is that you always seem to keep it authentic and real. I recently read about Wabi-Sabi and it explores the beauty of the authentically “mundane”…the everyday objects we often take for granted until someone such as yourself reminds us of the beauty of everyday life. I feel ya on the reluctance to let go of your little girl. Mine graduates this year, and I am SO not ready for her to be an adult! Thanks for always keeping it real.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh thank you! It’s nice to hear that the #authentic-intention is working!!

      (My daughter is now into week 3 of university (but still living at home) and due to longer study hours, extra work commitments and new friends, we don’t see her as much as we used to… I keep reminding myself that her being an independent young woman is exactly what I hoped for her future – so it means we did our job of raising her well! (and then I feel a bit sad, because I miss her!)

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  19. Lori Pohlman Avatar

    I like your photo of blue a lot! Thanks for this helpful post. ๐Ÿฉต๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿฉต

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      My absolute pleasure! (and I LOVE blue!) ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿฉต

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  20. John Avatar

    You got good advice on shooting methods, I love the Rule of Thirds, it gives subjects in a photo somewhere to move towards.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      AGH! I was nervous that a real photographer would turn up!! ๐Ÿคฃ The rule of thirds is actually quite helpful as a newbie to experiment with when framing an image – but I didn’t always remember to follow it! I have a newfound appreciation for what you do – it’s not as easy as it looks! Yay you!!

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      1. John Avatar

        Wow, thank you so much, Linda!!! โค๏ธ

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