Category: Resilience

  • Do Sh!t Differently (DSD)

    Do Sh!t Differently (DSD)

    My first real job was working as an architectural graduate in a large private firm.  And by ‘large’, I mean VERY large by Australian standards: 100 people all working in one place, most of them graduates of the exact same degree I had… dozens of architects all trying to climb…

  • What does it mean to be “on the mend”?

    What does it mean to be “on the mend”?

    When I was a child in the 1970s, I remember my paternal grandmother always being busy. She was either baking cakes, digging in her veggie patch, cleaning the house – or mending… something… anything… everything. More recently, I’ve noticed that we live in a much more throw-away society. Things are…

  • The 4 F-words of trauma

    The 4 F-words of trauma

    This blog post is a very high-level discussion about how people respond to trauma and is hopefully not upsetting in any way, but it IS about stressors, so you may want to give it a miss. * * * * * For a long time when I was growing up,…

  • Layer-cakes for healing

    Layer-cakes for healing

    Healing requires many different things to take place, often all at the same time.  You need to be meeting with doctors to finesse your medication options.  You need to be working on your lifestyle decisions to give yourself the best chance to heal in the least toxic environment.  You need…

  • The three ghosts of Christmas migraines

    The three ghosts of Christmas migraines

    I’ve never been a huge fan of Charles Dicken’s story “A Christmas Carol” (1843).  The cranky old selfish man Ebenezer Scrooge was a horrible central character, and yes, I know that he undergoes an epic character arc which redeems him… but still… what kind of person picks on a child…

  • Happy Holidays with “Revertigo”

    Happy Holidays with “Revertigo”

    Many years ago, I came across the neologism “revertigo”.  Even without knowing the details, I had a sense of the concept from the elements of the made-up word: revert + vertigo.  The article which the term appeared in explained that revertigo relates to how quickly we fall back into our…

  • Rise (and rise again)

    Rise (and rise again)

    Music makes a huge difference to my ability to deal with pain… and life’s ups and downs in general. I have a channel over on Spotify where I collect relaxing music to listen to when I have a migraine so that I feel less lonely lying around in the dark.…

  • The day I met Queen Nefertiti

    The day I met Queen Nefertiti

    Many, many, many, years ago, I studied art in high school. One of our major works required us to explore the changing way women were represented in art. I recall that we had to choose three images, from different eras, and then find a way to mix their messages. Strangely,…

  • Light me up Scotty…

    Light me up Scotty…

    I’m not a Star Trek fan… I don’t know how, but I missed it all when I was younger and know absolutely nothing about it now… except the “beam me up Scotty” message… This (apparently misquoted-pop-culture) phrase came to mind when I was reading an article about an Australian business……