Mindfulness for migraines

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Mindfulness is the number one, overarching tool that has helped me reduce my migraine triggers (stress, fatigue, posture) and increase my resilience to the triggers I can not avoid (genes, hormones, climate etc.). As a result, I have managed to reduce my migraines from 3+ days a week (every week for over a year) to one day every 3 weeks (with a few setbacks).

Mindfulness is a technique in which you try to set aside your concerns for awhile and concentrate instead on your body in this moment, here and now.  It often involves sitting still, breathing deeply, and perhaps meditating, doing yoga or a craft project such as coloring-in.  The hope is that in calming your body and mind, your brain will have a chance to rest and reset.  From there, your anxiety might lessen, energy increase, your mood could be boosted and you might get a better night’s sleep.  There is also a chance that you will reduce your migraine pain (in terms of frequency, severity and/or duration) as I did.

Mindfulness, for me, includes the daily activities of walking, Tai Chi and meditation, but more generally it involves β€˜checking in’ with myself as often as possible throughout the day.  Am I β€˜hunchy & scrunchy’ instead of sitting straight with a tension-free face?  Am I hungry, thirsty or overheating?  Has my pain shifted in intensity or location (for better or worse)?  I want to be self-aware enough that I begin to recognize triggers as early as possible, and before they have the opportunity to develop into a full-blown migraine where I am in bed for 3 days.

If I do get sick with a full-blown migraine, mindfulness helps then too.  Instead of curling into a ball and weeping for 72 hours, I remember to be calm and collected, disappointed of course, but not angry, frustrated or depressed.  Mindfulness has taught me to read my body’s signals – I can now feel my blood pressure rise when I’m angry and my head tighten when I cry – neither of which helps my migraine.  If the migraine does arrive, the hope is that by relaxing into the situation – it is what it is – I can shorten the duration down to several hours instead of several days.

I have created a Spotify account of music, meditations and podcasts all designed to help myself and others ‘shortcut’ the mindful migraine journey: Spotify

‘True’ mindfulness, however, relies on deeper connections to self-awareness, which come (in part) from Buddhist practices.  Some recurring themes regarding this form of mindfulness include:

  • focusing on the positives in your life and setting the negatives aside,
  • focusing on the here-and-now, rather than the past or future,
  • doing things with purpose and being fully aware of the experience,
  • being grateful for the good in your life and accepting of what is not so good,
  • remembering the wider world through compassion and trust,
  • not taking things too seriously and maintaining a sense of humor as best you can,
  • not being judgmental towards yourself; wherever your mind wonders, whatever emotions you’re feeling, they’re normal, you’re normal, and you’re always more than your thoughts and feelings.

If you click on the ‘mindfulness’ tab at the top of this post, you’ll see lots of other resources and links to help you develop a more mindful approach to your migraine. The activities are also labeled “Easy” / “Moderate” or “Difficult” to help you chose which ones might suit you best in the moment.

Also -there’s plenty of additional printables that might help you on your mindful healing journey over on the RESOURCES page – enjoy!

Remember to liaise with your health care team before making any radical changes to your treatment, and for those who want more information on the benefits of mindfulness, here a few links that I have found helpful:

(1 min) What is mindfulness? – YouTube

Mindfulness – Mental health and wellbeing | healthdirect

Mindfulness and Pain – Pain Management – painHEALTH (uwa.edu.au)

How Mindfulness Impacts Well-being – Mindful

napadow-2020-the-mindful-migraine.pdf (harvard.edu)

The Effectiveness of Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction on Perceived Pain Intensity and Quality of Life in Patients With Chronic Headache – PubMed (nih.gov)

Take care taking care, mindfully, Linda x

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(DISCLAIMER: Please be sure to speak to your health care provider before making any lifestyle changes – I am not a medical doctor – I am only writing about what has and hasn’t worked for me as an individual migraineur with 40 years lived experience.)


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150 responses to “Mindfulness for migraines”

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    Anonymous

    This is wonderful! I’m so glad mindfulness has been such a powerful tool for you as well! It sure is for me too! Have you ever heard of BreathWorks? It was founded by a lady who experiences debilitating chronic pain, and is very helpful resource. I thought if you hadn’t heard of it you might want to check it out: https://www.breathworks-mindfulness.org.uk/

    Cheers! xo Renata

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    Anonymous

    good posting

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    Anonymous

    I have recently started to notice that I am very hunchy and scrunchy…leading to lots of pain! I’m working through it and mindfulness helps me to reconnect to my body throughout the day!

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      How wonderful – I’m super happy that mindfulness is working for you – it takes a while to get into the swing of it, but it’s well worth the effort! xox

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  4. indianeskitchen Avatar

    I live with chronic pain, fibromyalgia and other issues. These conditions keep me at home most days. I never thought about migraines being a chronic pain as well, but it definitely is! I think your advice is amazing and I will try to change my way of thinking because of your advice. I think the hardest part of a medical symptom that people can’t see is that they will never understand what it is like for us to get through everyday. Thank you

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh no, fibromyalgia is very tricky to live with from what I understand… as you suggested, the hidden aspect of our suffering is perhaps the hardest; the pain affects us mind body and spirit… I’m thrilled that you found our little corner of the internet; here’s hoping you find some comfort!! Linda xx

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      1. indianeskitchen Avatar

        Thank you Linda!

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          Super welcome! xx

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    Anonymous

    I suffer from restless leg syndrome. I need to focus on mindfulness for that. Maybe it would help. Very good information. Thank you.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh I hope it does!!! The trick is to keep trying – the earliest attempts can leave you feeling flustered, silly, and unfulfilled…. but keep at it, eventually you find a soothing-groove and it starts to make sense and pay dividends. Here if you need a cheerleader! xx

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  6. Teagan Riordain Geneviene Avatar

    I’m glad you found a means of relief. Having been a chronic migraine sufferer for many years, I understand. I’m also relieved to only have them occasionally now. Hugs.

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      Thrilled they’re on the way out for you! That said, even the occasional one is a mood-killer! Take care taking care! xx

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  7. bereavedandbeingasingleparent Avatar

    A work colleague used mindfulness to ease her severe migraine attacks, I think she is now medication free.

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  8. Wendy Fachon Avatar

    My mindful go-to for migraines is a Nick Loffree Qigong video on youtube specific to headache, migraine, neck and shoulders.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh! I’ll have to look it up! Thanks for the tip. Xx

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  9. Kate Crimmins Avatar

    I have IBS and ten years ago it was peaking with multiple painful attacks a week. Docs are about the drugs which help but for me it was the brain-gut connection that was causing a lot (but not all) of my issues. I started doing deep breathing exercises, then branched out in meditation, exercising, visualizing, etc. It didn’t go away but it became more manageable. Yes, I still need meds occasionally but not near as much as I did. The odd part was that I got the most help from other people in chat rooms. IBS is an auto immune disease the isn’t life threatening so receives little attention from the medical field but it can be life changing. I have known people who suffer from the “three days in total darkness” migraines. Sending hugs.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Thank you Kate! As you said, mindfulness can’t cure things like neurological conditions or auto immune diseases, BUT mindfulness activities CAN make the symptoms more manageable. I think it’s both sad and wonderful that we find most of our medical answers from each other rather than from medicine – it makes sense that people with lived experience can be each others’ guides, but it makes me sad that so much of what we go through gets sidelined and left to us to navigate. Thank you for being here – it’s so wonderful hearing about how other people help themselves heal! Linda xx

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  10. Mary K. Doyle Avatar

    This is so good, Linda. I do this for asthma, as well. Thank you for sharing your music. I now am following you there too. You’re fabulous!

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh, thank you Mary! The music was probably one of my biggest saviors – I was so lonely in my illness, but music somehow filled the void and gave me hope. Enjoy my friendship through the sounds, best wishes, Linda xx

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    Willie Torres Jr.

    Thank you for sharing this post and your journey and insights. It’s clear that mindfulness has not only improved your physical health but also enriched your overall quality of life.

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      I am very grateful for the changes it has helped me make. xx

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    Anonymous

    Hi!! How serendipitous that you found my site, my boyfriend has been living with migraines for half a decade now and I can definitely attest to mindfulness having a marked difference in how intense and frequent they can be.

    I appreciate you sharing your experience and resources on the topic!! I’m hoping to learn more and help him feel less isolated.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Aren’t you amazing! I love that you’re open to learning more to help him. It’s such a horrible diagnosis, and even when you think you have escaped its clutches, you still seem to live in fear of the next attack. Here’s hoping he manages the pain and finds joy as much as possible! Linda xox
      (PS always here for a chat if he gets stuck.)

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  13. WanderingCanadians Avatar

    Mindfulness is so good for many aspects of our well-being. Glad to hear it’s helped reduce your migraine triggers.

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      Thank you so much for your support!! πŸ’œ

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  14. Cindy Georgakas Avatar

    Great to meet you through Mike! I am so happy to know you are finding mindfulness to be a helpful tool!

    I have a lot of clients that I work with that also get benefit from the techniques. I’ll see you around.. ❣️

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      Oh Hi Cindy! I’m a big fan of Mike – thanks for visiting! Linda xox

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      1. Cindy Georgakas Avatar

        You’re welcome, Linda! Mike is the best for sureπŸ’—

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  15. Midwife Lisa Mitterrigger Avatar

    Thanks for reaching out! I suffer from migraines related to hormonal changes during my menstrual cycle. I startet breathing practice and yoga about two months ago and I already see changes. I am gonna check out your ressources for sure. Thanks so much! Lisa

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      You’re so welcome – it always comes as a bitter-sweet surprise to find out how many people suffer from migraines – stay on top of them with mindfulness for sure (mine were monthly and didn’t impact my life too much so I tended to ignore them, then during perimenopause when I turned 50, they moved towards chronic – I wish I had started responding earlier). Take care, xox

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  16. stephaniehrehirchuk Avatar

    Yes! Beautiful work.

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      Thank you !! 🀩

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  17. thingsihavethoughtof Avatar

    When I was being taught to meditate, our teachers told us that if we have a pain, rest your attention on that pain and it will go away. This sounds totally counter-intuitive but if you do it right, it works. I don’t have anything as serious as a migraine so I can’t say it will fix it, but it’s a thought.

    ‘Resting your attention’ is not the same as focusing on it (well, it is, but it’s doing it without considering it ‘work’). So when meditating, just be. Then practise resting your attention on different things, much like mindfulness. But… rest on the one thing and only the one thing, as though the only thing you have to do in the world is to rest your attention there (like your feet touching the floor). If you find yourself stressing to do it, that’s normal, and your attention will flutter around everywhere. But if you practise this for a few days, you’ll notice that you can constantly rest your attention on one thing for a few seconds before your attention goes off. If you manage that, you’ll find yourself drawn deeper. After you’re getting better, you’ll notice your breath often takes your attention away, so the last thing to focus on is your breath going through your nose.

    Once you get okay at that, if you find your getting a migraine, rest your attention on the pain. The exact spot where the pain is. Maybe it will go away.

    (If you really get good at this, the next and final step is a is a simple mantra, resting your attention on that).

    Sorry, got a bit carried away!

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Absolutely no apologies required – I love your passion for this subject!

      I have tried many times to turn my attention on the pain – to ‘befriend’ it and ‘listen’ to it rather than ignore it – sometimes it works, sometimes the extra attention just reminds me how bad it is and makes my heart hurt. I’ve come to realize that mindfulness is slow and steady, there’s no quick fixes, but if you practice a little every day (or whenever you can) your mindfulness-muscles, as it were, get stronger and stronger, and more and more aware.

      Thanks so much for stopping by – I’m incredibly grateful, Linda xxx

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      1. thingsihavethoughtof Avatar

        Yeah, there is definitely a learning curve. It’s actually quite similar to learning anything, like playing an instrument. The more you do it, the better you get. If you stop for a few weeks, your fingers don’t work so good and it takes a little time to get it all working again.

        And you need to be really clear about what you are doing. If you’re in meditation wondering whether you’re doing it right, then that is a distracting thought and it won’t work. There are a lot of instructions out there that just confuse things with abstract descriptions of listen to this or that, or even listening to someone talk. But the idea of meditation is to remove all thoughts, it is to just rest your attention on a single thing so that thoughts stop. So focus on a single thing, like feet touching the floor, that is, the skin of your feet touching the bottom of your shoe. Actually go to that and feel that. Not the idea of that, your actual foot and the feeling on your skin. You can do it for a split second and your attention will move. Go back again and again, it’s hard, it’s suffering, its stressful, you are killing your ego. If it is driving you crazy, or you find a little peace there, then focus on your bottom in the chair, then focus on some clothes touching your skin, your back on a chair, etc. Try to do it as a job, you’ve allocated 15 minutes to forget everything else in the world, this is only thing you have to do. Smart people do it the best, because they can control their minds the best. Be as smart as you can, it is hard work for a smart person. You will find yourself stressing to focus, once you can do it a little, try to find where you are stressing and relax that. Try to ‘rest’ your attention rather than focus. Rest your eyes in a position that is relaxing and get them used to not moving, they should not be fluttering because that is distracting to your mind. Then you’ll notice your breath is distracting, so eventually you make your breath the thing to focus on, and you focus (or rest) your attention on the air going in and out of your nostrils. Not the thought of breathing, not the overall thoughts associated with anything, the simple physical movement of air going through your nostrils. It’s simple to say in words, but you need to experience this yourself and you’ll understand.

        Haha, anyway, I’ve done it again. I’ve never described this to anyone, so in a way it’s for me as well. Everyone is different and has their own journey. Feel free to ignore all I’ve said, it’s there if you need it, but you will find your own way.

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        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          Thank you so much, I really value your wise and considered input! I think that you’re spot on when mention everyone’s journey is different (I often write “your brain – your pain – your journey”, because no two people’s lived experience is the same). But I’ve also come to realize that we’re even stronger when we band together and support each other as we navigate our individual journeys. I really respect your passion (especially for ‘rest’ over ‘focus’ – it’s a subtle but important difference). Thanks always, Linda xxx

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          1. thingsihavethoughtof Avatar

            Thanks for reading my ramblings as well. Yes, we’re in this together, and it’s very interesting to read your journey as well and understand what you’re going through.

            Thanks for all your posts, we all appreciate you for doing so.

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              πŸ₯°

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  18. bereavedandbeingasingleparent Avatar

    focusing on the positives does make such a difference, mindfulness was recommended to me by a doctor. Definitely helped me.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      I don’t know why, but it didn’t come naturally for me… busy brain and all that. But slowing right down and being present in the moment has made a big difference for me too. Thank you so much for being here. Linda x

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      Thank you – I hope that you find something of use, even if it’s just some extra company! Linda xx

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    Anonymous

    Actually, I can see your steps on coping as beneficial to anyone who suffers with chronic or recurring pain. I will be wring down your list and keeping it handy as a daily reminder to myself. Thank you! ~Lynda

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh, another Linda, but with a Y, which I’ve always thought was very cool. I’m glad you’ve found the material useful, and yes, I think there is a lot of cross over between chronic pain issues. Take care, Linda x

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