Mindfulness for migraines

Published by

on

Mindfulness is the number one, overarching tool that has helped me reduce my migraine triggers (stress, fatigue, posture) and increase my resilience to the triggers I can not avoid (genes, hormones, climate etc.).โ€‚As a result, I have managed to reduce my migraines from 3+ days a week (every week for over a year) to one day every 3 weeks (with a few setbacks).

Mindfulness is a technique in which you try to set aside your concerns for awhile and concentrate instead on your body in this moment, here and now.  It often involves sitting still, breathing deeply, and perhaps meditating, doing yoga or a craft project such as coloring-in.  The hope is that in calming your body and mind, your brain will have a chance to rest and reset.  From there, your anxiety might lessen, energy increase, your mood could be boosted and you might get a better nightโ€™s sleep.  There is also a chance that you will reduce your migraine pain (in terms of frequency, severity and/or duration) as I did.

Mindfulness, for me, includes the daily activities of walking, Tai Chi and meditation, but more generally it involves โ€˜checking inโ€™ with myself as often as possible throughout the day.  Am I โ€˜hunchy & scrunchyโ€™ instead of sitting straight with a tension-free face?  Am I hungry, thirsty or overheating?  Has my pain shifted in intensity or location (for better or worse)?  I want to be self-aware enough that I begin to recognize triggers as early as possible, and before they have the opportunity to develop into a full-blown migraine where I am in bed for 3 days.

If I do get sick with a full-blown migraine, mindfulness helps then too.  Instead of curling into a ball and weeping for 72 hours, I remember to be calm and collected, disappointed of course, but not angry, frustrated or depressed.  Mindfulness has taught me to read my bodyโ€™s signals – I can now feel my blood pressure rise when Iโ€™m angry and my head tighten when I cry โ€“ neither of which helps my migraine.  If the migraine does arrive, the hope is that by relaxing into the situation โ€“ it is what it is โ€“ I can shorten the duration down to several hours instead of several days.

I have created a Spotify account of music, meditations and podcasts all designed to help myself and others ‘shortcut’ the mindful migraine journey: Spotify

‘True’ mindfulness, however, relies on deeper connections to self-awareness, which come (in part) from Buddhist practices.  Some recurring themes regarding this form of mindfulness include:

  • focusing on the positives in your life and setting the negatives aside,
  • focusing on the here-and-now, rather than the past or future,
  • doing things with purpose and being fully aware of the experience,
  • being grateful for the good in your life and accepting of what is not so good,
  • remembering the wider world through compassion and trust,
  • not taking things too seriously and maintaining a sense of humor as best you can,
  • not being judgmental towards yourself; wherever your mind wonders, whatever emotions youโ€™re feeling, theyโ€™re normal, youโ€™re normal, and youโ€™re always more than your thoughts and feelings.

If you click on the ‘mindfulness’ tab at the top of this post, you’ll see lots of other resources and links to help you develop a more mindful approach to your migraine. The activities are also labeled “Easy” / “Moderate” or “Difficult” to help you chose which ones might suit you best in the moment.

Also -there’s plenty of additional printables that might help you on your mindful healing journey over on the RESOURCES page – enjoy!

Remember to liaise with your health care team before making any radical changes to your treatment, and for those who want more information on the benefits of mindfulness, here a few links that I have found helpful:

(1 min) What is mindfulness? – YouTube

Mindfulness – Mental health and wellbeing | healthdirect

Mindfulness and Pain – Pain Management – painHEALTH (uwa.edu.au)

How Mindfulness Impacts Well-being – Mindful

napadow-2020-the-mindful-migraine.pdf (harvard.edu)

The Effectiveness of Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction on Perceived Pain Intensity and Quality of Life in Patients With Chronic Headache – PubMed (nih.gov)

Take care taking care, mindfully, Linda x

*

(DISCLAIMER: Please be sure to speak to your health care provider before making any lifestyle changes – I am not a medical doctor – I am only writing about what has and hasn’t worked for me as an individual migraineur with 40 years lived experience.)


Discover more from The Mindful Migraine

Subscribe to get the latest posts sent to your email.

150 responses to “Mindfulness for migraines”

  1. hubertprevy Avatar

    My personal theory (supported by personal experience) is, Linda, that the best medicine for headaches is to laze around, especially on evening. And you apparently lack laziness.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      I was brought up in a home where business was best – if you ran out of things to d, you could always help do something for someone else… the guilt of lying around has remained… but I’m working on it – I don’t beat myself up as much as I used to when I rest… but I still feel a little bit lazy… I’ll try to channel Lazy Linda as my New Year’s Resolution! ๐Ÿคฃโค๏ธ

      Liked by 1 person

      1. hubertprevy Avatar

        I can relate. Both my parents and grandparents used to tell meโ€”and everyone elseโ€”that any time not spent working or furthering oneโ€™s education was time wasted, along with the money not earned throigh that lack of diligence. My wife, though an active person herself, countered this by pointing out the difference between true diligence and simply โ€˜running empty miles.โ€™ She compared their attitude to that of a lumberjack who, out of sheer industriousness, keeps cutting with a blunt axe, convinced that sharpening it would be a waste of time better spent felling more trees.
        PS: This frankness of hers toward my parents and grandparentsโ€”she was my fiancรฉe at the timeโ€”led eventually to a falling-out with my side of the family, a rift that was never fully mended.

        Liked by 1 person

        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          Oh no! I remember reading a book many many years ago about relationship time-bombs… divergent upbringings was one: the theory being that if your partner isn’t in tune with your parent’s attitudes, things will fall apart. I can see how they might, but that doesn’t mean that the core-relationship does. Tension between in-laws is pretty common, but you and your wife sound super-tight (and I totally agree with her ax-sharpening analogy; it’s perfect (I remind myself that if you don’t take the time to have your car serviced or fill it up with petrol, your journey’s going to fail eventually: (self-)maintenance time is not wasted time!)

          Sending lots of good vibes your way – all families are fluky – ride it out! xx

          Liked by 1 person

          1. hubertprevy Avatar

            Donโ€™t worry, Linda ๐Ÿ˜‰ Iโ€™m perfectly at ease with my in-laws. At first, their emotional landscape felt foreign to me, but I soon grew to appreciate their warm-hearted yet deeply responsible and selfless nature. In truth, my side of the family proved less compatible with my wife than hers with me.

            Still, it was my parents who made and shaped me into who I am. My mother was less fortunate in life; her lifelong dream of traveling the world never came to pass. My fatherโ€™s hopes of establishing himself as a successful architectโ€”dreams closely tied to hersโ€”also remained unfulfilled. I, born much later than my brothers, arrived with my own syndromes and conditions, perhaps as an additional burden.

            I cannot bring myself to criticize anyone whose life I did not live.

            But my wife held a certain grudge toward them, seeing what she perceived as emotional neglect toward me. I never viewed it quite so tragically; I still had my books and toys.

            Liked by 1 person

            1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

              ‘Burden’ is not a word you should associate with yourself my friend, try not to think that way (even though I spent the last 3 years thinking it!) I suspect your wife’s grudge comes from her belief that you deserved more love than she perceives you received. From your blog, you’re a perfectly functional, well-rounded man and a loving partner and father, so whatever the past may have been – it hasn’t hurt who you are today ๐Ÿ’•

              Liked by 1 person

              1. hubertprevy Avatar

                I must admit, Iโ€™ve simply been incredibly lucky in my life โ€” especially in finding a partner who is caring and supportive, and in being welcomed by a family as supportive as she is. I know men who, in many ways, are worthier than I am, yet were far less fortunate in the course their lives took.

                Liked by 1 person

                1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

                  You are so worthy of all the joy and support you receive – sending you even more from blogland!! ๐Ÿ’•

                  Liked by 1 person

                  1. hubertprevy Avatar

                    Thank you Linda, I feel the same about you and your wonderful family ๐Ÿ™‚

                    Liked by 1 person

                    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

                      yay us – so glad our digital paths crossed!! xx

                      Liked by 1 person

  2. Rehoboth Avatar

    Nice Post Thanks

    Like

  3. WanderingCanadians Avatar

    My younger sister suffers from migraines and Iโ€™ll make sure to pass this along to her. But even though I donโ€™t typically have migraines, mindfulness in general is so important for our well-being and perspective of life. Thanks for sharing some of your recurring themes.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      You’re so welcome – and thank you for sharing it with your sister, I hope it helps her, even a little bit. And YES I’ve come to realize that we all need a little mindfulness in our lives to slow us down and help us manage an ever-stressful life. … or not ‘manage’ … that’s not mindful … just have a greater awareness of what’s what and more gratitude for the good stuff! Thanks for visiting, have a wonderful week ahead, Linda xox

      Like

  4. June Lorraine Roberts Avatar

    Keeping a food diary made a big difference for me. My food triggers weren’t the usual “red wine, aged cheese,”. Nuts (including peanuts) & seeds, citrus were my two biggest triggers.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Alcohol and Citrus are my undoing โ€ฆ but only if there are other conditions that upset my system (like stress or weather) โ€ฆ on a dodgy day, a cup of coffee can set me off โ€ฆ other days, nothing I eat or drink matters โ€ฆ thatโ€™s why youโ€™re absolutely rightโ€ฆ trigger trackers are so important!

      Liked by 1 person

  5. kagould17 Avatar

    A good post on coping skills Linda. We all need to learn to live with the body we occupy. I am not a migraine sufferer, so can only imagine what you went through. Stay well. Allan

    Liked by 1 person

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Thanks Allan, and youโ€™re right, this body is our lifelong home โ€ฆ we have to make it workโ€ฆ whatever the quirks! ๐Ÿ™‚

      Liked by 1 person

  6. Dracul Van Helsing Avatar

    Glad you found a way to reduce the number of migraines you have.

    They can be really debilitating.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Thanks so much – even a little bit less makes a big difference. Hope yours are few and far between! Linda xx

      Liked by 1 person

      1. Dracul Van Helsing Avatar

        I used to get migraines on occasion in my late teens and early 20s.

        But thank God, they stopped.

        Liked by 1 person

        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          Lucky you! I was the reverse – not many in my teens and 20s, and slowly a few more in my 30s, then smashed by them in my 40s and 50s. ugh. So happy it worked out for you!!

          Liked by 1 person

  7. Discover and Explore Avatar
    Discover and Explore

    Lovely words!!!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      oh thank you! ๐Ÿฅฐ

      Liked by 1 person

  8. Jody Avatar

    Energy work, walking and meditation help me with life, and they increase the amount of joy I see every day.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Fabulous! I love walking and meditation – but I’m curious, what do you mean by “energy work”? (I’m always keen to learn more), Linda xx

      Like

  9. Skyseeker/nebeskitragac Avatar

    Tai Chi, walking and meditation help me with my anxiety. And they really increase the amount of joy in my life.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      They are my top three mindfulness techniques as well – with a little bit of Yin Yoga stretches and EFT tapping from time to time. Increasing joy is such a positive way to reduce pain – yay you! Linda xx

      Liked by 1 person

      1. Skyseeker/nebeskitragac Avatar

        I’m glad it works for you as well. ๐Ÿ˜Š

        Liked by 1 person

        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          ๐Ÿฅฐ

          Liked by 1 person

  10. Kinga K. Avatar

    I want to try something new because I have migraines sometimes ๐Ÿ™‚

    Liked by 1 person

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Have a look around the site and see if anything catches your fancy – chances are, if you’re interested in something, you’ll keep at it. “Stress less” is a very simplistic way of answering a difficult diagnosis, but it really does seem to be at the core of reducing migraines. Reach out through the contact page if you need any extra advice, and if you ever want to write about your experiences with migraine as a guest blog post, I’d be happy to publish it, Linda xox

      Liked by 1 person

  11. The Introverted Bookworm Avatar

    Awesome tips here! Migraines sound like a horrible condition! Thanks for sharing ๐ŸŒธ

    Liked by 1 person

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      My pleasure – stay well, Linda xx

      Liked by 1 person

  12. Kirt D Tisdale Avatar

    Awesome post…thanks for sharing!!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Youโ€™re so welcome ๐ŸŒผ

      Liked by 1 person

  13. Joy Zold Avatar

    Not “just” a reallyy encouraging post on pain management — it’s also excellent advice on how to live, period.

    Liked by 3 people

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh thank you – and I agree! I’ve seen my wellness improve beyond just my migraine-health since I’ve started to live more mindfully. Here’s hoping your life has more joy than pain too, Linda xox

      Liked by 3 people

  14.  Avatar
    Anonymous

    Hi Linda, I popped over here to see what your blog was about and found a fellow migraine sufferer. I have hemiplegic migraines that show up randomly. Always scares the ๐Ÿ’ฉ out of people because it appears as if Iโ€™m having a stroke. My speech slurs, I have facial paralysis and sometimes I canโ€™t put two thoughts together so Iโ€™m unable to communicate properly. I have a visual aura before hand- I see โ€œbroken glassโ€ in one eye. Helps me get to a safe place to lay down. Mindfulness really helps- all the things youโ€™ve listed help! I have to watch certain things I eat and drink as they seem to bring on an episode. Strength and love to all of us who suffer from these horrible conditions. โ˜ฎ๏ธ

    Liked by 3 people

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh, I’m so glad you found us (the hemiplegia IS scary – I carry a key tag to explain it to people when I can’t talk or walk properly) – but I’m also so sad that you’re part of the team – it really is a dud diagnosis! Thrilled that you’ve found mindfulness and tracking your triggers helps too. (Bit of a roller coaster of emotions I’m expressing there – sorry! (but that really is our reality – community is everything – migraine is the pits!)) Sending lots of love, Linda xx

      Liked by 2 people

  15. Cindy Georgakas Avatar

    Fabulous important tips, Linda! ๐Ÿ’“

    Liked by 3 people

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Thank you Cindy! xx

      Liked by 2 people

  16. AmyRose๐ŸŒน Avatar

    Linda, what a brave woman you are, choosing the hero’s journey versus the victim. I really hope you reach many by all you are doing, for migraines are truly debilitating. I suffered for more years than I care to recount. Mine however, disappeared with menopause. Why? I don’t know. But they did and I haven’t had one since. THANK GOD! I see this post was written last year in February. I hope by now your migraines have been resolved. Much Love to you! โค๏ธ

    Liked by 3 people

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      How wonderful for you – Iโ€™m thrilled! My mothers and my mother-in-law both saw there migraines switch off for good at menopauseโ€ฆ I think Iโ€™m still in perimenopauseโ€ฆ so hopefully they will end soon! Thanks for dropping in, and again, so happy youโ€™ve left the pain behind! L xx

      Liked by 3 people

    2. Dreamatt Avatar

      Mindfulness is such a powerful tool for managing migraines and overall well-being! Your journey and tips are inspiringโ€”thank you for sharing this thoughtful and practical approach. ๐ŸŒฟโœจ

      Liked by 3 people

      1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

        Thank you so much – it’s comments like these that keep me going even on the struggle-days!! Super grateful, Linda xox

        Liked by 1 person

  17. Kim Zahnow Avatar

    Amazing blog! I battled debilitating migraines for years. I love how you have taken your pain and made something healing with it! I look forward to reading more and taking a deeper dive into your blog. Cheers, Kim

    Liked by 2 people

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh thank you Kim! It’s not a fun club to belong to – but it’s always nice to meet a fellow patient. I only just found your blog, but your photography is so beautiful, it’s hard to imagine you in pain! Hope today is a good day for you – sending lots of happy-healing vibes your way! Super thrilled our digital paths crossed! Linda xox

      Liked by 1 person

  18. thebpdcrisis Avatar

    I love that you started a blog based on your pain in an effort to help others. What a great idea.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Thank you so much – it has saved my sanity more than I ever could have imagined (the blogging and the mindfulness!) ๐Ÿ’œ

      Like

  19. Ally Bean Avatar

    An excellent resource for anyone suffering from chronic migraines. I can only imagine how difficult it must be. So sorry this is your reality.

    Liked by 2 people

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      It’s been a while now (coming up to 1000 days in a row) so I’m used to it – I hear about a lot of people who are much worse, and a lot less supported, which breaks my heart though. Hope you have a wonderful day, xx

      Liked by 2 people

  20.  Avatar
    Anonymous

    I am usually calm, but I think that’s because I many times hold it all in instead of letting it out. Great article. Thank you! I despise migraines, but they sure seem to like me.

    Liked by 2 people

    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Holding it all in has been a big problem for me too – ignoring the emtions, downplaying them, finding excuses for them – it all adds up – the repressed emotions tip you towards overwhelm and our poor nervous system crashes. Sorry to hear that you’re part of Team Migraine – the membership terms and agreements are rotten! Here if you need me, Linda xox

      Liked by 1 person

Leave a reply to June Lorraine Roberts Cancel reply