Dialing down the ‘hurry up’

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My mind is not minding the way it used to. I’m sad to say that I think it has fallen victim to a problem that is sweeping the globe (which I delusionally thought I was immune to): a decreasing attention span.

My revelation came the other day when I was watching a production of Agatha Christie’s “Seven Dials” based on her 1929 novel. Set in the 1920s, the show was visually lovely to look at, the storyline piqued my curiosity, and I thought the main actress (Mia McKenna-Bruce) was fabulous… but…

I am a bit ashamed to say that my mind kept throwing “hurry up” messages at the television.

The loudness of this insistent voice surprised me for a couple of reasons.

The first is that I understand that a good mystery is designed to unfold over time. There needs to be dead ends, red herrings, and a multitude of characters with complex backstories that we progressively blame then exonerate. It would hardly be a satisfying “who done it?” if, after ten minutes, the detective walked in, looked at the dead body, spun around and pointed an accusatory finger at someone who we’d never seen on screen before while screaming, “YOU did it with a candlestick because you woke up in a bad mood!”

Moreover, Agatha Christe’s “ABC Murders” was actually the first novel I made it all the way through as a youngster. My mother gave it to me because she figured that the ‘big reveal’ at the end would keep me reading – and she was right! She even gave me a certificate which I might still have in a box somewhere…

As such, it feels particularly rude of me to be asking The Queen of Crime to please hustle along – especially (and (un)ironically) since clocks were an important and recurring theme in the story!

[In my defense, I did a quick web search and there were several reviews that suggested there was some pacing issues in the production, and the 3 episodes might have been shrunk down to 2.]

The second reason I was disappointed to notice myself noticing the time, is that I have been practicing mindfulness routines for 2 years now – had I learnt nothing about chilling out in the present moment?!

National Geographic recently released an article (behind a paywall) that suggests the average attention span has shrunk to 40 seconds.

What?!

The Center for Brain, Mind and Society (CBMS) at Columbia University wrote an article (here) that seems to be a year old, and it suggests we were still at 47 seconds ‘back then’. Whereas 20 years ago, it states, we were managing 2.5 minutes of uninterrupted concentration.

But hang on a minute… when you drill down a bit further into the research, the results related to how long someone stayed on a computer tab before opening / switching to another tab. So, that’s still concerning, but a whole different kettle of tik tok fish fun…

When I’m in digital ‘relax mode’ I tend to scroll around, move between apps, or browse through news headings, start reading, get the gist of the news report, then close that article, and click on another…

But – when I’m in ‘study mode’ or ‘work mode’ I can keep a single university paper open and read it from beginning to end over many long minutes (with my phone deliberately placed screen-down or in another room). Same again for reading a paperback novel – I don’t flick between one novel and another every 40 seconds…

The reality is, however, that those ‘relaxing’ flip-scroll-swipes that I’m indulging in, are doing damage and changing my brain’s expectations, especially for screentime.

I wonder if I had watched Agatha Christie’s movie on the big screen, with popcorn and fellow cinema patrons, would I be anticipating a long-haul experience that would make me more patient? Or would I still be getting frustrated with the long car drives that were scenic but added little narrative detail?

Here’s one thing that the article referred to, which I also read in a self-help book recently:

DON’T MULTI-TASK.

The online article notes that you are never actually doing 2 things at once, your brain is actually bouncing back and forth between the two activities super-fast, and this ‘task-switching’ is tiring. Worse, we waste a lot of time as we have to gear-back-up each time we unnecessarily keep switching.

[I used to get a bit grumpy with my family when they came into my office when I was writing my PhD with a migraine… I had closed the door so that I could concentrate, and then, with a casual and albeit well-meaning, “um – mum” (like my daughter’s “making magic” moment) the fragile line of ideas that I had lined up and was trying to write down, crashed and splintered and… sigh… I had to clean up her mess then mine…]

Jacqui Lewis’ “The 14 day Mind Cleanse” is very blunt – multi-tasking is NOT mindful. She writes that doing two activities at once means you’re doing neither task mindfully. She’s not a fan, for example, of listening to podcasts while you do dishes (oops – I’m a super-fan of merging fun activities with chores to lessen the blow (like listening to podcasts while I iron!)

Her point was valid though, from a scientific as well as mindfulness perspective – steady single activities lead to steady minds.

OK – given I’m probably not alone, what can we all do to dial down the voice that is impatiently waiting for the next dopamine hit?

The online Columbia University article suggests three things, summarized (for our short attention spans) as:

  1. Change your environment – Remove potential distractions. 
  2. Recognize that attention is task-specific – We may be able to sit through a 2-hour, action-packed movie, but start to squirm within 10 minutes of a nature documentary [or vice-versa!]. Infusing activities with storytelling and interactivity can increase your ability to focus. 
  3. Recognize that attention is a limited resource – Our attention spans are likely to be strongest in the mornings after a full night’s rest. If you feel yourself losing focus, take a break.

Here’s a test for you – well the second really, if you’re still reading this, you’ve been focused for 5 minutes – well done you!

Here’s the test I meant to set you: watch the 2-minute trailer for the series I watched and see if you can stay with it for the whole time. Your mind might run commentary over the top, but if it’s about what you’re watching, then you’re still essentially on-task. If you start checking your emails, fussing over the kettle, or scrolling the bar at the bottom to skim through the video…. well then … politely and with all kindness – you fail:

[Video source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LD16F92LHIY&feature=youtu.be]

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If you’re anything like me, then it comes as a shock to find out 2 minutes can feel like a looooooong time!

Take care taking care mindfully,

Linda xox

PS – I’ve written posts honoring a slower state of being before (which I’ll be re-reading!): “A new take on ASAP” / “Unhurry- or – make hast slowly

PPS – I just remembered I read a post on WordPress late last year that was about kid’s attention spans, and the numbers were way less than 40 seconds! As Lawrence John writes: “In the 1980s young people in the USA were said to have the attention span of a gnat. // They were dubbed the MTV Generation… Fast forward to 2025 and we have the TikTok generation with an even shorter attention span… Bart Simpson would have said ‘Eat my Shorts’… Today’s generation would only hear the word EAT and would zone out…” If you’ve got a few minutes to spare, pop over and share some blog-attention around and read more of Lawrence’s post here: The Case of….Your attention span is…..


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64 responses to “Dialing down the ‘hurry up’”

  1. Lisa at Micro of the Macro Avatar

    Great post, Linda. I didn’t put myself to the test you suggested, but I did read your entire post without losing focus. I meditate twice a day & I’m sorry to say, some days it’s all I can do to bring myself back to the fact that I’m trying to meditate!β˜€οΈ

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      I think it’s very human to have a wondering mind… I just worry that we’re all becoming more wonder-y…!! My meditation practices are a bit hit and miss in terms of whether I can relax into them – super impressed that you do it 2 times a day, that’s amazing – well done!!

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  2. Graham Stephen Avatar

    i think you should have made this post way shorter πŸ˜‰πŸ€£

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      🀣 I just choke-laughed on my coffee!

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      1. Graham Stephen Avatar

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  3. silverapplequeen Avatar

    I’ve always done more than one thing at a time. Especially watching TV. At the very least, I am knitting or doing some other kind of needlework.

    I never liked going to movies ~ I don’t like sitting in a crowd of people & I don’t like movie popcorn. (My popcorn is the BEST). & I never liked JUST SITTING THERE. I want to be doing something.

    & now, having lived alone for so many years, I talk to the TV & the people on the screen. This, of course, is verboten at a movie theatre. LOL

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      he he – you will absolutely get booed if you started talking to the characters on a movie screen!! But I do it too with my TV – I can’t help myself, as I give them my advice / support which is so silly given it’s all scripted and pre-recorded… but hey… it shows you’re invested! πŸ™‚

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  4. Yeah, Another Blogger Avatar

    Hi. My attention span has shrunk, and maybe continues to shrink. I can’t read for hours uninterrupted, like I used to, for example. I’m not thrilled by all of this, but I can live with it.
    Neil S.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      It seems to be a global phenomenon… we’re all losing our collective minds… like you said, I can live with it too, but it does make me nervous where my kids will be at a few years from now…

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  5. The Oceanside Animals Avatar

    Charlee: “Multi-tasking is no good. Humans should be more like us cats and focus on doing one thing well. Like sleeping.”

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Or… nah… just sleeping….😴

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  6. Masina Avatar

    I needed to read this today! Thank you. Love your work!

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Super happy I could help 🀩

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  7. Trish Avatar

    I have noticed my attention span is not what it used to be in a lot of ways. I can still concentrate on certain things like books or puzzles, but I get impatient with video content for sure!

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      It’s quite shocking really how quickly our environment and lifestyle has shifted our brains – I’m trying to do what I can to reverse the situation by noticing my mind shifting, and calling it back… yay for puzzles – I too can do those until my eyes give out!!

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    Anonymous

    “Thanks for quoting my blog! I almost read your whole post, but you know… oww, shiny thing… anyway, what was I saying? Two minutes? That’s practically a decade these days, isn’t it? Before I forget: happy blogging, and thanks for the mentionβ€”it really made me smile. πŸ˜„

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      My absolute pleasure!! 🌟

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  9. Stephanie Avatar
    Stephanie

    I’ve been wondering whether it’s the hurry-up mind taking away from the enjoyment i used to have watching TV shows, or whether they’re just not as good as they used to be. It’s both probably, and not because of the objective quality of the shows, but that I’ve watched a lot of TV by this time in my life and can see all the formulas/predict quickly, etc.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      I’ve thought about it too, and I think it’s a bit of both – modern movies tend to be fancy to look at but often miss out on compelling characters or plots, but mostly I think it’s the format.

      I borrow a lot of DVDs from the library, and the ad-free version is much easier to stay engaged with – most TV channels (in Australia) are filled with ads, so just as the story line is getting interesting and you feel invested in what’s going to happen next, it flicks to a commercial about something I don’t need in my life, and I instantly feel disconnected from watching… I often give up and go to bed and tell myself I’ll find a different way to watch the same story down the track. Life is too short to watch infomercials about cleaning products and new cars over and over!

      (And yes, I read a lot of crime novels in my younger years, so I can often sense who’s going to be the main culprit before we get there due to the formulistic framing – but not always!)

      Have a wonderful weekend!!

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      1. Stephanie Avatar
        Stephanie

        Commercials absolutely factor, although sometimes in a good way if I’m hooked into something I’m not completely enjoying!

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        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          (and kettle / toilet breaks are helpful too!!)

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  10. Edward Ortiz Avatar

    Interesting, and I’m not sure you have an attention span problem, it’s probably the show. I have a similar issue. If a show is too slow, I tend to think in my head that they need to get to β€œthe good part” quickly. I try not to watch those drawn-out drama shows anymore. A movie, I can watch all day long, but a seriesβ€”when producers try to stretch the plot across 8 or 10 episodesβ€”drives me crazy. Now, if you’re watching a TV show and on your smartphone at the same time, that’s a problem. I know someone in my house who does that. πŸ˜‚

    It’s great that you mentioned multitasking because that’s definitely a myth. Like you said, the brain is just switching very fast, and the person isn’t completing tasks as quickly or as fully as they think. I read an article that said performance on a particular task drops to about 50–70% when multitasking. That’s not terrible depending on the task, but doing two or three things at the same time isn’t great for mental health.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      This new generation do love their phone!! In Australia, new drivers are not allowed to have their smart phones anywhere near them in the car – it stops them playing music, sending texts etc while their hands should be on the wheel, and their minds on the road – everyone knows that the temptation is too great, and the risk of injury is terrible – so it’s instant loss of license if you get caught.

      …but listening to a podcast while doing the dishes seems low risk in terms of accidents, or lower concentration span… so I’ll keep at it!

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      1. Edward Ortiz Avatar

        I still see people driving while holding their phone in one hand. They don’t even try to use a hands-free device. It’s insane what some people are willing to do. Listening to a podcast while doing the dishes or laundry is definitely not a problem.

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          Mind you… my first ever accident when I was off my learners license was a mini-fender-bender caused by me looking down to change the radio station while easing up to a stopped car at a red light (just not easing up fast enough!!) 🀣

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          1. Edward Ortiz Avatar

            Well, at least it was minor and everything turned out okay. Now we can laugh about it, but I’m sure it was a terrifying experience for you at the time.

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            1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

              I wasn’t scared, just embarrassed… and annoyed… a trip to the mechanic is never fun….

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  11. LoveLifeHappiness&MoreπŸ’™πŸ’™ Avatar

    Wonderful post! Have a great weekend.

    New follower here. 😊

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      YAY!! welcome to the blog-club, I’m thrilled to have you here!! (PS – I love your blog too, I’ve been visiting since 2024 – so congrats on all the effort you have put into blogging!!)

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      1. LoveLifeHappiness&MoreπŸ’™πŸ’™ Avatar

        Beautiful welcoming, thank you.

        I’m glad to be here, your visits are truly appreciated. Have a great weekend. ❀️

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  12. richardbist Avatar

    I learned a while back that “doom-scrolling” on the internet was ruining my attention span and my enjoyment of things like movies, books, and television shows. So I’ve cut WAY back on mindless scrolling, looking for that dopamine hit.

    One of the things I like about my Apple products is I get a weekly report of how much screen time I had each week. It’s a great way to manage my screen time and has helped me to get back on track.

    Well, except for blogging. That’s where most of my current time is spent. πŸ™‚

    Have a fantastic day, Linda!

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Ahhh… I think I would get a shock if I tracked how much time I spent on blogging (probably better not to know) – but I def cut back on social media apps, because I was wasting way too much time watching videos of free range chickens learning how to use swings… (long story!) 🀣

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  13. Stella Reddy Avatar

    Awesome post, Linda! Thanks for teaching me something new!

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      My pleasure my lovely friend!! πŸ™‚ Have a wonderful weekend!

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  14. P. J. Gudka Avatar

    It’s funny, I had the same experience but before I watched Seven Dials. I was watching this show called Dept. Q and realised that even though it was quite fast paced I found myself wanting to skip to the last episode which never used to happen to me before. I’ve always loved mysteries and thrillers but my attention span is ruining it for me. Since then, I decided to stop watching short-form videos on any platform and only go on social media for a few minutes a day. With Seven Dials, I forced myself to concentrate and really enjoyed it even though they had changed so much of the plot.

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      It is quite humbling to realize that our brains are getting as muddy as everyone else’s – but I also suspect that noticing that it’s happening gives us an opportunity to change it (use it or lose it as they say) – I’m being more mindful about being mindful since I noticed – and it sounds like you are too! yay us!!

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      1. P. J. Gudka Avatar

        Yup, thankfully once we notice we can make changes!

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          Here’s to all of us slowing down enough to appreciate a gentler way of living!πŸ’–

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  15. christahartwig Avatar

    Funny. I immediately thought of Agatha Christie when I saw the header image β€” not “ABC Murders,” though, but “Seven Dials.” I recently learned from a TV series (ahem) that there are apparently different levels of ADHD. One is considered a kind of “childhood illness,” and another is regarded as a “gift.”

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Kowing a few people who have ADHD in various degrees, I’m going to say it’s a gift for everyone… they just have to each learn how to ‘unpack’ it in a way which helps it work for them. Funny that you thought of ABC Murders since that was my childhood hook… seems like a strange case of serendipity!

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      1. christahartwig Avatar

        What a great idea – learn how to unwrap a gift. Many thanks!

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          πŸ’–my absolute pleasure xx

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  16. Chris Avatar

    Thank you for this post, Linda. In my early years I read the Hardy Boys but eventually graduated to Agatha Christie. I can see why, as my internet states about her:

    “Agatha Christie is considered the best-selling novelist of all time, with her books estimated to have sold nearly 4 billion copies worldwide. Only the Bible has sold more copies than her works.”

    I haven’t seen this movie that you’ve shown the trailer for but I think I’ve seen almost everything else put on the screen that has her name associated with it. Of course, there is nothing like reading her books. She had such a gift.

    Attention spans differ from person to person, of course, but I don’t think all of the screen time people spend these days has helped attention spans one bit.

    I have always found it hard to multi-task unless it was something like stretching (exercise) and listening to something.

    God’s blessings…

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Your comment made me realise something – thank you!🀩 – we can sometimes do two things at once when we are using different senses, such as stretching and listening to music, or doing the dishes with our hands and listening to a podcast… it’s when we try to think about two things at once our brain has to shuffle or shut down… glad you like the queen of crime too… she was amazing (and thanks for the stats, I had no idea she was so popular!)

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      1. Chris Avatar

        You’re welcome. Trying to think of two things at once always seems to make things take longer for me, most of the time because of the mistakes I make because I’ve asked my brain to do too much.
        Agatha Christie certainly had a gift. I wonder if any real detectives ever asked her for her thoughts on a case?

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        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          Hmmmm… I’ll have to google it – I think she would be good at figuring out motives, but I can’t imagine her door-knocking to look for culprits!!

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          1. Chris Avatar

            I bet you’re right. She was too busy writing books to try and be a detective herself. I wonder if anyone ever asked her but I doubt we’ll never know if someone did.

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            1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

              From what I just googled she was often inspired by real crime, but not involved in solving them… which makes sense… otherwise there would be legions of crime readers trying to solves cases and getting in the way of the police!

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              1. Chris Avatar

                Ah, that is interesting. Thanks for looking that up, Linda. The police certainly have enough trouble these days without interference for sure. Maybe Agatha would have been awful at solving real cases anyway! πŸ™‚

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                1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

                  The pen is mightier than the magnifying glass! 🀣

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                  1. Chris Avatar

                    Nice one! πŸ™‚ (By the way, this is the only little smile I know how to make. Do I have to upgrade my WordPress account to get others like the laughing little guy you just shared?)

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                    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

                      he he – good question – for me, I hover over the text box, and right-click my mouse. That opens up the “emoji” option, and then more image options open up for me to insert (the smiling sun and shining star are my 2 favs) – good luck!!

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                    2. Chris Avatar

                      Thank you!!! You know how many times I’ve pasted things and never noticed that emoji option? Thousands. Now I have more than one option because of your help! πŸ˜ŽπŸ™ƒπŸ¦“β›·οΈπŸ‘¨β€πŸ’»πŸ‘πŸŽ¨πŸ’ŽπŸ€πŸŽΆπŸ“±πŸ“½οΈβŒšπŸ₯¨πŸŒ»πŸš πŸ›πŸ’œπŸ’™βœοΈπŸŒπŸš°βž‘️⬅️⬆️⬇️β†ͺοΈβ†©οΈβž—πŸŸ’πŸ”ΆπŸ•¦
                      Well, that was fun!
                      Thanks again, Linda!

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  17. Michael Williams Avatar
    Michael Williams

    great post Linda. I cannot believe that I fell for that gigantic multi-tasking pile of dung when I was a younger man. it was such a pile. I do believe that the effects of it stay long afterwards and that is the real tragedy. I can definitely say there is an upriver connection to the concept of time and attention span. mindfulness, even with the most basic and mundane of tasks is foundational to the identity of the whole day. we have to come back to that sense of precision. not everything has to be nailed down indiscriminately with a giant hammer! πŸ™‚ Mike

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh gosh! The giant hammer analogy is perfect … hence the headaches! When we were younger we had more energy so it felt easier to do a dozen things at once, now I find I want to conserve energy so it’s all about quality over quantity!

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  18. John Avatar

    It was easy to watch the entire trailer, Linda, and it looks like a good movie! I see some familiar faces in there along with a Harry Potter Alumni. I can sit still on the couch and work on my photos for close to an hour with no problem.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      I guess it comes down to interest – I could look through my phones photos for an hour but I would struggle to be deeply invested in someone else’s photo roll (no matter how amazing the subject matter, it’s still a record of their experiences not mine) … happy you’re one of the calm centred people who can stay on task without effort 🌟

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      1. John Avatar

        Thank you Linda! Maybe its because I’m older… ?

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        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          It’s probably because your photos are better than mine!

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          1. John Avatar

            Maybe… Have a great weekend! 😊

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