Category: Strategies

  • “How to change minds”

    “How to change minds”

    When my neurologist told me that “more medicine doesn’t equal less pain”, I didn’t want to listen.  When he told me that to heal, I needed to adjust my lifestyle and mindset, I became as prickly as a cactus.  When he suggested that I should start doing meditation, yoga and…

  • What is functional medicine?

    What is functional medicine?

    When I first heard the phrase “functional medicine” from my blogging buddy Midwest Mary, my first thought was – “isn’t all medicine functional? Why would I take a non-functioning medication?!?” Curiosity piqued, I went off to find out more about ‘functional medicine.’ First stop – my computer’s AI assistant which…

  • Mini-mindfulness course

    Mini-mindfulness course

    A couple of people have asked me if I have any plans to write a mindfulness course to purchase… the answer is no… I don’t have the time, energy or skills to create the additional content to a level of quality that you all deserve, AND I want everything I…

  • What am I doing here?

    What am I doing here?

    While doing my regular blog-land roundabout I came across a blog called The Spectacled Bean and a post labelled “Home Sweet Home: do you know where you belong?” The post referred to an interactive website (OECD Better Life Index) where you can find out which country best suits you based…

  • Midnight migraines

    Midnight migraines

    A while ago I wrote that I was pretty sure that nightmares can trigger midnight migraines… today I’m adding another unconventional culprit to the list: wearing socks to bed.  Hear me out… For a few months there, one of the biggest banes of my life was midnight migraines.  I was…

  • Wearing a mask / Resting B!@#$ Face

    Wearing a mask / Resting B!@#$ Face

    I couldn’t decide what to call today’s post. The polite version of what I want to write about relates to “wearing a mask” when you live with chronic pain. I often find myself smiling politely to people when I really feel like sleeping / sighing / crying. It’s not the…

  • Whispers and screams

    Whispers and screams

    The other day I read a comment on the blog Thriving Chronicles – it immediately struck me as so simple and yet deeply profound: “I try to listen to my body when it whispers, so it doesn’t have to scream!” My goodness – why hadn’t I thought of that!?! This…

  • No spoons (or forks) for me…

    No spoons (or forks) for me…

    A while ago I wrote about the history of “spoons” – the metaphor people with fibromyalgia use to explain how people with chronic pain allocate their limited amounts of energy.  Today I want to go into a bit more detail to explain the idea, AND tell you why it doesn’t…

  • Migraine Love Language

    Migraine Love Language

    We need help when we are sick. Sometimes we ask for it. Sometimes we just hope that our loved ones will read our mind and turn up with what we need when we need it. Sometimes our family and friends want to help so they provide what they think is…