• Learning from cake mix

    Learning from cake mix

    My husband sent me a link to a psychology website a while back. I confess I was confused. The title was “A Creativity Lesson from Betty Crocker”. Ummmm… OK. Was this some sort of hint that I needed to get back into the kitchen more? Was he finally making the…

  • Did going gray increase my migraine pain?

    Did going gray increase my migraine pain?

    The author Dr Howard Schubiner has a book called “Unlearn your pain” which I’ll try to summarize soon.  Until then, I want to mention a specific concept that he raises in the book – “predictive coding” – which is when you start to see and feel the things you expect…

  • Traumatic Brain Injuries (TBI) and migraines

    Traumatic Brain Injuries (TBI) and migraines

    My migraines seem to be the result of a combination of stress and hormones, linked to a mobile assemblage of environmental issues such as humidity, excessive noise or dehydration. For some unlucky people however, migraines (and other headaches) are the result of a Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI). According to the…

  • Are you a crybaby?

    Are you a crybaby?

    Just after the 2024 Olympics, I read an article in a publication called ‘The Atlantic’ which was titled The Crybaby Olympics by Christopher Beam. I now can’t open it without a subscription, but I took a copy of the article’s tagline: “Sports have always had sore losers. But based on…

  • Like mother like daughter

    Like mother like daughter

    I’ve been thinking a lot about the habits that we learn from our parents – and those that we pass onto our kids. The list that comes up in my mind is a mixed bag of wonderful memories, routines and rituals… as well as a handful of dubious practices. [This…

  • Winning at The Wheel of Fortune

    Winning at The Wheel of Fortune

    A while ago I mentioned in passing that I had been the carry-over champion of a game show.  This is that story… and apologies in advance; it isn’t going to do anything for your chronic pain – other than make you laugh – it’s just a strange little glimpse into…

  • Conditioning and pain

    Conditioning and pain

    Ever heard of Ivan Petrovich Pavlov (1849–1936)? He was a physiologist who did experiments with dogs. Put simply, he would ring a bell each time he served the puppies their dinner.  After repeating the routine often enough, he could ring a bell, and the dogs would salivate even if there…

  • Nothing is inconsequential… including you

    Nothing is inconsequential… including you

    While I was busy living my life over the last 50 years, I generally assumed that the little things were essentially inconsequential… “Don’t sweat the small stuff” and all that jazz. Scraped your knee? Meh… it will heal. Arrive late to a meeting by a few minutes? Accidents happen. Did…

  • Wash that pain right out of your head

    Wash that pain right out of your head

    When I was younger, I used to be a complete sucker for a musical on TV.  “The Sound of Music”, “West Side Story”, and “Greece” all come to mind, as well as “The King and I”.  As a teenager, I then went through a stage (pun intended) where I loved…