My migraine story

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I have experienced migraines since I was 11 years old. In the early years they only appeared occasionally and did not have a major impact on my life. In my thirties however, they became more regular, and I began to experience hemiplegia (stroke-like symptoms). In my forties I was occasionally hospitalized for treatment and in my worst attack, I broke three of my teeth from grinding through the pain. A little over two years ago, I was diagnosed with chronic migraines, and I currently have permanent pain around one eye that hasn’t ‘switched off’ at any time in the last 3 years. As a result, I have had to cut back on parenting, driving, working, studying and socializing. 

About two and a half years ago, after exhausting medical interventions with my doctors, my neurologist recommended that I follow a more holistic approach.

Through a self-directed journey of exploration, I have been experimenting with a variety of alternative approaches, including: breathing exercises, Tai Chi, Qigong, mindfulness meditations, Yin Yoga, stretching and massage, fitness routines, dancing and daily walks. 

By following a loose program, the combination of activities all appear to have helped in their own way, and combined they seem to be having a significant effect. My migraines have reduced in frequency, severity and duration. Since transitioning from 3+ migraine days a week (every week for over a year), to 1 migraine day every 3 weeks, (with occasional setbacks), I wanted to share some of the links that have helped me.

[LATE 2025 UPDATE – the pain in my eye is almost all gone, and I only get a full-on migraine about once a month – I’ve improved SO MUCH that I was able to recently complete my PhD (graduation pictures here!).]

There’s only two ‘rules’ that I’ve applied throughout this self-help healing process: 

  1. TRY A VARIETY OF THINGS – after checking in with your health professional what’s suitable for your individual circumstance, attempt lots of different links in this blog. You want to get better – so even if you think what they’re doing in the video looks strange – have a go.  Some of the weirdest videos have been the ones that have helped me most (like gently tapping my sore head with my fingertips).  If you like a video, check to see if they have others on their channel for more ideas.  Start with the shortest videos to get a feel for the techniques, then move to longer sessions.  Soon you’ll be practicing many of the ideas you learn randomly throughout the day.  The aim is to eventually spend 60 minutes a day, every day, employing the empowering self-help techniques. 
  2. BE KIND TO YOURSELF – trust your intuition and listen to your body; if something makes you feel worse then slow down or stop.  If you can’t do what they’re doing in the video (the teachers are fitter and more flexible than we are) just modify the moves they’re doing until they change to the next move.  Also, some of the dance and Tai Chi moves require more coordination than I have, so just do your best, smile, and be proud that you’re having a go; 5 minutes of uncoordinated self-help is better than no minutes – yay for you!  

That’s my migraine story – I’d love to hear yours down below in the comments if you’d like to share.

Here’s hoping you’re getting better.

Take care taking care, Linda x 

PS. The links to try are embedded in the separate blog posts. If you enjoy a particular approach, then you can tap on the tab at the top of the post to move through similar posts (such as ‘strategies’, ‘movement’, ‘music’ and so on). 

PPS. Posts that are labelled ‘Linda’ include personal updates. It’s been a long journey and whist I’m not pain-free, I am grateful to be learning how to live a more-pain-less-life through a more mindful approach to my migraines. 

(DISCLAIMER: Please be sure to speak to your health care provider before making any lifestyle changes – I am not a medical doctor – I am only writing about what has and hasn’t worked for me as an individual migraineur.)

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144 responses to “My migraine story”

  1. hubertprevy Avatar

    My wife recommends using procedures like this occasionally, she is enthusiastic about it:

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Thanks! I’ve drafted a post just for this (to go out in March) – I had never heard of it before, but it turns out my daughter sometimes listens to these videos to help her get to sleep!👏💜👏

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      1. hubertprevy Avatar

        In my case, watching my favorite history videos or movies makes me drift off, unlike political news. I can’t remember a favorite video of mine that I’ve ever managed to finish in one sitting.

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        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          OK – see I find it hard to drift off in movies – there’s too much going on in my mind – maybe if it was a repeat I would though… curious!

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          1. hubertprevy Avatar

            Perhaps you should try to acquire my lazy-evening-butt and evening-devil-may-care attitude first 😏

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            1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

              🙃oh I gotta plenty lazy-butt… but I do need to work on my devilish-attitude!

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              1. hubertprevy Avatar

                I do strongly recommend it, as it’s proved its worth, in my case, at least 😉

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                  😂🌞

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    Anonymous

    I don’t suffer from migraines thank God but I feel for everyone who does.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Thanks for your empathy, L xx

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  3. thomasstigwikman Avatar

    I am sorry about your migraines. I have not had migraines but my mother did. It is an awful condition. I am glad you found a way to deal with it.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Thank you lovely, I’m sorry for your mother – mine had them too at a time when there were no medications available – ugh – it’s not easy now, but it was really bad then! L xx

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  4. Julia Avatar

    The only comfort I have found is Magnesium Citrate. It is a trace mineral we all lack. It made a HUGE difference and I pray it will help others. Set back is loose stools, but if you monitor the intake and get a happy medium it does make a difference in lessening migraines.

    Many Blessings

    Julia

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Thanks Julia – I’m thrilled you’ve found something that works – I take magnesium and wear it sometimes as a rollon – it does seem to be lessening the impact (and yes, for every step forward in healing, there’s often a step back!) Here’s hoping 2025 is more-pain-less!! Linda xox

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      1. Julia Avatar

        Thank you so much as you have educated me that there is a magnesium roll on available. I only know of the capsules of magnesium citrate I take. I love learning new things. 🙂

        Be Blessed

        Julia

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        1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

          My pleasure – I like the rollon because I can apply it directly to the area that has sore muscles (usually my neck) – fair warning though; the one I use tends to dry on your skin and make you look “salty” if that makes sense – but it does seem to help, L xx

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          1. Julia Avatar

            That makes perfect sense and I too would apply on my neck that is forever sore and the forehead. Great advice.
            Julia

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              🥰

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  5. Michael Williams Avatar

    it’s really inspiring to see that you’ve turned a tough condition for many people into a positive platform. I do not know if I have migraine headaches but I suffer enough from them that i’m up to 3 Alleve caplets whenever it happens and if I don’t do anything about it my headache becomes debilitating.

    while Alleve (Naproxen) has its place in the healing process, I am also in full belief as to these approaches you’ve outlined. While they may not completely stop the occurrences, I feel they will drastically reduce instances of it.

    I hope you and your family are having a happy holiday season! Mike

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Thanks Mike! It’s tricky, because some doctors are all about meds, but my neurologist is all about mindfulness… I think the truth is somewhere in the middle. I’m sorry that your pain is still overwhelming at times, here’s hoping 2025 is more-pain-less! Linda xox

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      1. Michael Williams Avatar

        thanks Linda!

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  6. Nana Avatar

    It must be painful and exhausting to live with migraines. I experience migraines every two weeks, and I already find it exhausting. It’s good that something works for you, and I hope you continue to feel better as time goes by.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Even every two weeks is hard going – I hope they don’t last too long 😔💜

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  7. Elodie Emmett Avatar

    I am pleased to hear you have found some things that work for you. Acupuncture and Chinese medicine worked for my chronic pain for a while but unfortunately I now have other health issues that are being further investigated. It can seem never ending! Take care x

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      It really can seem like once you move from the Land of Wellness to the Land of Illness you’re stuck on the new continent and all it’s strange and never-ending ways… but as someone who’s halfway back to the ‘other side’ – swimming the channel as it were – it really is possible to reclaim your life. You have to stay curious, keep experimenting (safely) and believe that you can heal. Sending you digital hugs, Linda xoxoxox

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  8. vanessa gonzales Avatar

    I admire your tenacity 💙

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Thank you – it doesn’t always feel like ‘tenacity’… more stubborn, bloody-minded perseverance… but I think I’ll borrow your word and rephrase my thinking; it’s much more empowering!! Thank you, Linda xx

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  9. Admin Avatar
    Admin

    Nice post.

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      Thank you 🥰

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  10. RiladyKing Avatar

    I just read this story, and I won’t even share my story, but I will say when you mentioned behind the eye, I could barely make it through the rest of it because I know that pain all too well. Praying for your relief of this chronic pain you are feeling.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      You’re always welcome here lovely – we get you – there are many of us who are smiling bravely as we fight back tears… migraine is a terrible diagnosis, but as cliche as it sounds; it is a sort of super power too – we are SO strong, so capable, so resilient… we make it through each day against incredible odds… I’m here if you ever need a chat. L xox

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      1. RiladyKing Avatar

        Thank you

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          My pleasure xx

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  11. D. Wallace Peach Avatar

    How kind of you, Linda, to share your experience with others and what has helped you reduce the frequency of your migraines. It seems that many of them are geared toward signaling to your body that it’s not under stress. I’m a Reiki practitioner and have never treated a migraine sufferer, but I know others who do. If you ever come across it, it might be worth a try. Jan Sikes has been sharing “sound therapy” lately that calms the body’s vibrational frequency. I wonder? I’m rooting for you that you continue to make positive progress and have more good news for your readers, while also acknowledging what a painful and life changing experience migraines are. ❤

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Thank you – I’ll take all the support I can get – digital vibes and all! I’ve tried Reiki a couple of times… it helped a bit, but I think migraine is a pretty stubborn from of chronic pain… I suspect that I had to work on a few more things first, but I’m thinking of going back now that the migraines are not as frequent or severe. Thank you again for stopping by and showing an interest – it means a lot to me and the rest of Team Migraine to know that others are on our side! xx

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        🙂

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  12. Migy Avatar

    Thank you, Linda! 🙂

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  13. Migy Avatar

    Thank you for stopping by my blog. As for me, I’m currently dealing with hormonal migraines and receiving regular treatment from my doctor. I hope you find relief from your migraines soon! 🙏

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh no – mine were hormonal too – then they kind of merged together to become almost constant – good luck with the treatment options and stay well! Feel free to reach out if you have any questions, Linda xx

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  14. Milena Alien Avatar

    i love all the tips you mentioned , they are super helpful Linda

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      My pleasure! Let me know if you try some and they work! Xx

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      1. Milena Alien Avatar

        I will

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  15. Rupali Avatar

    Thanks for visiting my blog, Linda. Sending you my best wishes.

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      So welcome – I enjoyed your writing style!! Xx

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      1. Rupali Avatar

        🙏😊

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    Anonymous

    Thank you for stopping by my blog Linda as it led me to yours. I suffer from migraines as well and it’s been a long road. I still get them along with the wavy vision and shooting stars. Not fun. But I’m still here…I’m sorry to hear how horrible yours have been along with the constant pain…sending healing hugs to you. 💓

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh no! It’s always so bitter sweet to meet others with migraines! No one should have to go through the pain. I don’t get the visual aura, it must be very disconcerting! Here’s hoping you find some company on the blog – I’m only an email away if you need a chat. Xx

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  17. Quippery Avatar

    I only get the auras of migraine – no headache. But I can sure relate to your advice to try lots of things for any disorder a person may have!

    I have been diagnosed with peripheral neuropathy and periodic foot movements. My Doctor had suggestions, but his best advice was to do my own research and just try many things out (that were medically safe) until I found what helped me. Of late, fresh orange juice, an iron supplement and magnesium seem to have helped a lot – but that is on top of a more structured physical fitness program.

    I think it is great that you have created a blog that helps others find the path to less pain!

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh, I’m so glad that you’ve found solutions that help your diagnosis! It does feel a bit counter-intuitive when a doctor hands healing over to us, but, I think it also makes perfect sense – no two people are the same, so no two health-care-solutions will be either. So grateful that you stopped by – thank you! xx

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  18. Auri'An Avatar
    Auri’An

    Hi – I checked out your blog after you responded to mine – nice to meet you!
    I too used to have migraine. They were debilitating and affected me neurologically. I would first lose words for common items like shoes or trees. Then my fine motor control would be affected – I couldn’t tie shoe laces or write my name, I dropped things. Then the migraine would start. They would last about 2-3 days and I wanted a big semi-trailer to drive over my head because it thought it would be soothing. The neurological effects could take up to 6 weeks to fully recover from.
    I had all kinds of testing – MRI etc… nothing was found.

    About 15 years ago I started experiencing physical reactions to certain foods and underwent testing regarding intolerance to various naturally-occurring food chemicals.
    I was eventually diagnosed with Multiple Chemical Sensitivity and it turned out to be a severe intolerance to a particular natural amine found in banana that was causing the migraine. I no longer eat banana and have not had a migraine since.

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh wow – I wish I could give up bananas and be cured!

      Your symptoms from before sounded like hemiplegic migraine (stroke-like symptoms -loss of speech and mobility) which is what I have on my worse attacks. I still have to be very careful with scents (but usually synthetic).

      I’m so glad that you’re better – success stories are always very reassuring to hear, because it gives us hope – so a BIG thank you for sharing yours here today!!

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  19. da-AL Avatar

    tx much for visiting my site. I love anything to do with books & would be thrilled if you’d write a guest blog post for my site, which is for anyone who enjoys writing, or books, and all the arts. If you think it might be fun or helpful to have my followers (who total about 10k across my various social media) meet you, here’s the link for general guidelines: https://wp.me/p6OZAy-1SOc – best, da-AL

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      Thanks! I’ll look into it when I get a chance! Linda xx

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      1. da-AL Avatar

        Wonderful! Please email when you’re ready or if you have questions ContactdsAL@gmail.com

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  20. Be Incredible Avatar
    Be Incredible

    A dear friend of mine suffers from Migraines..will surely ask her to connect with you Linda and this community…

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    1. The Mindful Migraine Blog Avatar

      Oh thank you! Loneliness and depression seem to run parallel to migraines; what a great friend you are to think of her. Xxx

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