Category: Community

  • “Are you ok?”

    “Are you ok?”

    In Australia, today is “R U OK” day – and as the website says, it is about “a national Conversation Movement that is equipping Australians with the skills and confidence to support those struggling with life.” Because, let’s face it, life isn’t easy, AND it’s not always easy to know…

  • Tag Team Blogging

    Tag Team Blogging

    The other day I received a note from one of my blogging besties, Robert over at Things I Have Thought Of. The comment said something like “tag you’re it”. My first thought was, “oh yay! Like the game! How fun!” But then my second thought was “but wait… what comes…

  • Generosity rather than gratitude

    Generosity rather than gratitude

    Today is International Day of Charity. As such, today’s post is a reminder to think about others rather than yourself. A while ago I wrote a post about how I replaced the desire for “less pain” with the hope of “more joy”.  The shift sounds small, but it was in…

  • “That’s ableism!” … or is it?

    “That’s ableism!” … or is it?

    This post is potentially a little bit controversial, but… I think it warrants my time and yours to put it out there and get people thinking… and talking.  Months ago, I read a blog post written by someone with a disability.  They wrote that despite the day-to-day difficulties they were…

  • Merit badges for adulting

    Merit badges for adulting

    When I was young, I was a Boy Scout. It’s true! In Australia at least, if you’re aged over 14 you can join the Boy Scouts as a Venturer. That’s what I was. We used to go hiking, camp in the snow, sail, explore, get lost, have fun, live our…

  • Stating the understated

    Stating the understated

    Yesterday I wrote about receiving advice from Julius Caesar in a dream. I ummed and ahhed about whether to include information about his death in the post. I decided against it, because I wanted the post to end on an upbeat tone. The reason I considered including it, is the…

  • “I have a migraine” is NOT a lie

    “I have a migraine” is NOT a lie

    When I was in my 20s, I worked in the headquarters of a large Australian retail company, project managing the construction of their stores across the country.  It was a great job, because I got flown around Australia, and OK, I wasn’t in holiday mode, but I got to see…

  • Together apart

    Together apart

    During the Covid-19 lockdown in Australia, there was a saying that kept doing the rounds in public service announcements: “together apart” – it was a neat way of explaining that we were all in isolation together… not alone in our aloneness… I’m not sure why I made the mental connection,…

  • Instagram for migraines

    Instagram for migraines

    Instagram is a completely different world compared to my experience on Twitter-X.  I’ve only been there for a few months, mostly posting links to blog-posts, uploading my experiments with AI art and the very occasional image from my life.  It is a much more visual place than Twitter-X’s ‘wordy’ format. …