Category: Linda

  • Here’s what I don’t know

    Here’s what I don’t know

    A big fear I had when I first started this blog was: “I don’t have the expertise to help others when I’m still learning how to help myself!” And that’s as true today as it was over a year ago when I first started tip-tapping away at my keyboard. But…

  • The job interview I won… and lost.

    The job interview I won… and lost.

    Whilst I trained as an architect, for most of my working life I have been employed as a retail project manager. Which means; I helped build retail stores. When I first started out, I rolled-out many, many small retail stores for a particular chain, each store about 100sqm (about 1000…

  • Grudges, be gone!

    Grudges, be gone!

    You work hard, you achieve plenty, but sometimes something, or someone gets in your way.  Someone ‘photobombs’ your perfect life.  And that makes you frustrated and disappointed; nobody likes a party-pooper.  [Image source: Bored Panda has plenty of great photobombing photos here] The trick is to feel those negative emotions…

  • Migraine Snakes and Ladders

    Migraine Snakes and Ladders

    Today was supposed to be a post about what I eat on an average day. The intention was to put out a “my daily intake” styled post so that we can all review it and decide what I could be having more / less of… the problem? I spent the…

  • UGH – time for a change

    UGH – time for a change

    The last couple of weeks have been really tough for me. I don’t know why, or what for, but I’ve been sick and sick and sick. First it was COVID (for the first time that I know of), and then when I recovered (all but my sense of smell which…

  • HELP! My name is “dying”

    HELP! My name is “dying”

    When I was pregnant with my first child, my husband and I started experimenting with names. We’d write them out, say them out loud, and place name-cards on the fridge of ones we liked… moving them up and down the line towards most to least favorite… and then remove them…

  • 1,000 days of pain

    1,000 days of pain

    Today’s post is a bit of a downer I’m afraid, so if you’re not up to it, I won’t take offence if you come back tomorrow. I’ve had migraines for decades. My first migraine occurred when I was 11 on a school excursion, and my worst ever migraine happened a…

  • Did going gray increase my migraine pain?

    Did going gray increase my migraine pain?

    The author Dr Howard Schubiner has a book called “Unlearn your pain” which I’ll try to summarize soon.  Until then, I want to mention a specific concept that he raises in the book – “predictive coding” – which is when you start to see and feel the things you expect…

  • Winning at The Wheel of Fortune

    Winning at The Wheel of Fortune

    A while ago I mentioned in passing that I had been the carry-over champion of a game show.  This is that story… and apologies in advance; it isn’t going to do anything for your chronic pain – other than make you laugh – it’s just a strange little glimpse into…