Category: Mindset

  • I DO want to be a content creator!

    I DO want to be a content creator!

    Many (many) weeks ago, I wrote a post titled “Migraine’s Secret Sauce” and concluded by complaining about how many people on social media were calling themselves “content creators”.  As I saw it, the world was already full of content, AI could make content, no one had time to read so…

  • “Good doggy”

    “Good doggy”

    Ok, so today’s post is a bit odd… but stick with me! I was watching a documentary about the neuroscience of dogs (as you do) and there were so many things that felt relevant to my healing journey… again… stick with me. As the mother of two fur-babies, there were…

  • Compassionate communication

    Compassionate communication

    As the mother of two teenage daughters, I feel like I am perpetually putting my foot in my mouth and messing things up. I love my children without measure and would never mean to hurt them… and yet… even I can say things that are less than all-loving. My eldest…

  • “That’s sick!”

    “That’s sick!”

    In Australia, the phrase “sick” is used in slang to mean “that’s fantastic” or “wow – that’s so cool”.  One kid might reveal the gift they got for their birthday, for example, and all the other kids say, “that’s so sick!”  Another kid might come a cropper off their skateboard…

  • Migraine jump-scares

    Migraine jump-scares

    OK – imagination time: pretend you’ve agreed to watch a horror movie with your friend. You’re not a huge fan of the horror genre, but your friend talked you into it because the movie is supposed to be ‘cerebral’ as well as ‘visceral’. So here you are, seated in the…

  • The job interview I won… and lost.

    The job interview I won… and lost.

    Whilst I trained as an architect, for most of my working life I have been employed as a retail project manager. Which means; I helped build retail stores. When I first started out, I rolled-out many, many small retail stores for a particular chain, each store about 100sqm (about 1000…

  • “Unlearn your pain”

    “Unlearn your pain”

    I’m always on the lookout for information that will change the way I relate to and understand my chronic pain.  In my search, I came across a book online called “Unlearn your pain” by Dr. Howard Schubiner.  (The book is on his website here).  The title alone made me optimistic……

  • Grudges, be gone!

    Grudges, be gone!

    You work hard, you achieve plenty, but sometimes something, or someone gets in your way.  Someone ‘photobombs’ your perfect life.  And that makes you frustrated and disappointed; nobody likes a party-pooper.  [Image source: Bored Panda has plenty of great photobombing photos here] The trick is to feel those negative emotions…

  • Finding faith

    Finding faith

    As I’ve written before (The Global Migraine), the readers of this blog come from all around the world, and undoubtedly from a variety of different faiths.  As such, I want to tread carefully but be very clear – you are ALL welcome here.  I also want to say something potentially…