Category: Strategies

  • Don’t hit the pole, don’t hit the pole!

    Don’t hit the pole, don’t hit the pole!

    The super-famous motivational speaker Tony Robbins (or Anthony Robbins as I knew him from when I was younger) has always left me feeling conflicted.  He has so many good ideas, but there is something about his high-octane way of delivering those ideas that makes me feel tired and lazy.  I’m…

  • Healing with colour

    Healing with colour

    I found myself with an hour to spare in the university library recently.  On the shelf in the good health section, I came across a book titled “Color Healing Manual” by Pauline Wills (1993).  As someone previously trained in design, I quite liked the idea of healing chronic pain with…

  • Hydration (Part TWO)

    Hydration (Part TWO)

    At the risk of grossing you all out, today’s post is about the side-effect of drinking lots of water: weeing lots of water.  If it’s not your idea of a fun read, feel free to skip it. * * * Urine.  Wee.  Pee.  Piddle.  Tinkle.  Watering the lemon tree.  Sword…

  • Progress over perfection

    Progress over perfection

    I used to be a bit of a perfectionist.  I set high goals for myself.  I liked to achieve those goals.  Heck, I preferred to overachieve in life wherever possible.  “Under promise and over deliver” used to be my humble-brag mantra.  Gold stars, pats on the back, A+’s, thumbs up…

  • (Re)prioritizing self-care

    (Re)prioritizing self-care

    When my two daughters were babies, my husband and I decided to do a small renovation to the side part of our house.  One day, the builder climbed out of the roof space, pale and a bit shaky.  “I don’t understand,” he muttered, “the ceiling over the baby beds shouldn’t…

  • Creating a gentler language for healing

    Creating a gentler language for healing

    Not long ago I wrote about the idea of a ‘migraine warrior’.  I noted that whilst I understood the motivational intent of the language, I also said that it didn’t always resonate with me, because it is exhausting to always be at war with your pain.  Today I want to…

  • How to initiate “mindful-mode”

    How to initiate “mindful-mode”

    “You can’t lead a horse to water” is an old saying, which I’ve never fully understood.  Why would a horse be so reluctant to be led towards water?  I’m guessing it would be very difficult to convince a horse to stand in a patch of stinging-nettles and thorns, no matter…

  • Migraine’s Secret Sauce*

    Migraine’s Secret Sauce*

    In Australia there’s currently a hamburger add on TV that keeps replaying an old jingle that goes through all the ingredients that go into the famous hamburger.  ‘Secret sauce’ is, of course, included. I also remember there’s a famous chicken brand that loves to promote its ‘seven secret herbs and…

  • It’s time to take out the trash (talk)

    It’s time to take out the trash (talk)

    Most of my internet-time is spent in blog-land; writing my blogposts and visiting as many other people’s blogs as I can to keep myself and other writers motivated. I also spend a little bit of time on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter-X and LinkedIn to post links back to my blog. Sometimes…