• Whispers and screams

    Whispers and screams

    The other day I read a comment on the blog Thriving Chronicles – it immediately struck me as so simple and yet deeply profound: “I try to listen to my body when it whispers, so it doesn’t have to scream!” My goodness – why hadn’t I thought of that!?! This…

  • Mind-messing optical illusions

    Mind-messing optical illusions

    Quick word of warning – today’s blog post is NOT very migraine friendly – which is so against everything I believe in… except that I do have a curious mind… If you have a migraine – come back tomorrow… this blog post could make you feel unwell… OR if visual…

  • Less “bad headache” / more “bad hangover”

    Less “bad headache” / more “bad hangover”

    A migraine is a complex neurological condition… it is NOT just a bad headache. That said, people who don’t experience migraines themselves are often looking for ‘shortcuts’ to help them imagine what it might feel like. I understand where the “bad headache” idea came from… but it’s just not accurate.…

  • Migraine and gut health

    Migraine and gut health

    Vince Martin, the director of a headache clinic in Cincinnati explained gut health in the 2024 World Migraine Summit earlier this year.  As with some of the other presentations, I was out of my depth with the heavy science-side of things, so be sure to follow up my summary with…

  • No spoons (or forks) for me…

    No spoons (or forks) for me…

    A while ago I wrote about the history of “spoons” – the metaphor people with fibromyalgia use to explain how people with chronic pain allocate their limited amounts of energy.  Today I want to go into a bit more detail to explain the idea, AND tell you why it doesn’t…

  • Mo(u)rning

    Mo(u)rning

    It is human to grieve. Necessary. We need to acknowledge loss, to make space for it, and time. You should give yourself full permission to feel deep, heart-breaking-sadness, and there should be no shame in having a good old cry… about whatever, or whoever it is that you’re missing… But…

  • Migraine Love Language

    Migraine Love Language

    We need help when we are sick. Sometimes we ask for it. Sometimes we just hope that our loved ones will read our mind and turn up with what we need when we need it. Sometimes our family and friends want to help so they provide what they think is…

  • Frida Kahola’s pain

    Frida Kahola’s pain

    The painter Frida Kahola was born in Mexico in 1907. As a child she suffered a bout of polio which left her with a limp. Worse was to come however, and at the age of 18 she was involved in a bus accident so terrible, many onlookers thought she was…

  • Find your WHO

    Find your WHO

    OK, confession time: I’m not really up on the whole DC comics or Marvel thing, or (yell at me now) what the difference between the two ‘worlds’ is… but… sometimes you find yourself “in” their world regardless. In Australia, one of our major supermarkets had a promotion a while back…